Question for Bisexuals?

Question

Which is your favourite, your own gender, the opposite gender or do like them both the same, has your preference always been the same or does it change

Answer 1

I like them both equally but at one point I thought I liked the opposite gender more and I got married. I think it does change but based more on age then anything else. I have intense desires for an emotional and physical bond with a man now and I can only figure it is because my desires and needs for female are being met by my wife.

Answer 2

Generally I would say that I don't have a preferance. It's more a case of how I feel about any individual, I prefer some men to some women and vice versa.
I have found that some men are somewhat better at knowing how to achieve complete mutual satisfaction during sex with me, but I'm sure the same could be said of two girls together.

Answer 3

I used to prefer males, but now I am discovering that I may be a "true blue" bi, that meaning 50/50. I like males because I like the rough & edgy sex. Let's face it girls, there's no substitute for the real thing. I also I identify with gay males more than my own gender. I find women extremely boring, but extremely sensual & passionate in bed. It depends on my mood and the individual.

Answer 4

I think that both girls and guys have good and bad things about them. I tend to look at who the person is first and whatever their sex is second, but there does have to be something there to make me look at them in that way at all. A way about them. I do think girls are the smarter, kinder, and more open-minded sex though. I do love being a girl!!

And sadly I have read some myths about being bi so I'll link the Human Rights Campaign site (yet again) to tell you the truth from the lies. Lies being the unloyal junk and the switching to or from being bisexual, which is not a choice anymore then being straight or a lesbian.
http://www.hrc.org/Template.cfm?Section=Coming_Out_as_Bi&Template=/ContentManagement/ContentDisplay.cfm&ContentID=32351

Answer 5

I pretty much think straight men are useless. I am in a relationship with one right now,and I'm finding him more and more useless daily. I like both sexes equally for having the sex act,but find women more of a pain to have a relationship with. At least with the men,you know better than to expect anything of them,lol. I think I'll become a non-sexual.....

Answer 6

All bisexuals are different. Most tend to prefer one gender over the other. What distinguishes bisexuals from monosexuals is that irrespective of the "balance", they CANNOT deny their feelings for either gender.

Personally, I sometimes prefer males to females, and other times its females to males. From the perspective of a monosexual, it would appear that I was in a state of "confusion" but I'm not.

The "balance" for me may change, but I cannot deny my feelings for either gender. I've had gay males try to convince me that females were "damp squids", "unattractive" and that "I was really gay", but it didn't wash off on me. I find both males and females attractive.

In reality, the concept of "balance" is nonsense. I guess my attraction depends on who comes along.

Answer 7

I prefer women, men have always been my second choice although sometimes, not often, I crave man love and a woman doesnt excite me. By the way, Im male. I do think it would be different for everyone though, just depends on who ya are.

Answer 8

Although I do like both, I do tend to favour women. I think it's because I find women gentler and softer than men. There's never any held back feelings with women, everything is totally open in a relationship.

Answer 9

I like them about the same, depending on the day and who it is I am thinking about. Most days I see a woman and think she would be wonderful in bed or at least great to fool around with in kinky way. Most guys I see nothing really sparks in me, but when I do fantasize it is mostly about guys and mostly me taking care of the recieving.

Answer 10

Physically I'm more attracted to females. But I lean more towards men when it comes to sex. I just love the male sexual organ, what can I say. But most importantly it is how I feel towards a person whether it is a man or a woman.