Ok..My girlfriend is bleeding?
In the category of weird questions..if there is such a thing here. My girl friend is bleeding from her usual area..(sorry ladies if that sounds a little chauvinistic..) but it's not her time of the month, yet I get a call at work saying she's bleeding. I suppose it's not heavy since she wasn't to worried and was able to talk calmly to me on the phone. I told her to go to the Doc's. Advice..? What the hell could going on? Pls..be serious..Also..she's not on bc ...and past experiences..tell me she may have had a miscarriage..but I don't know maybe her body's different. We have been having unprotected sex for over six months. I know thats stupid of me believe u me I've learned my lesson twice over. :( Should she wait for tomorrow to go to the doc? I want her to go today but she wants to go to work. It's irrelvent, she lives with her parents, and makes 7.50 what the hell could a day do. Am I right or am I right.
Is it wrong to use this to push BC on her?
2006-07-27 03:44:22 · 5 answers · asked by Bachatero 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
You know, before you judge me know that I've only been concerned for her health. I've wanted to stop, but just so happens that she has a huge sexual appetite but doesn't want the birth control and doesn't want to stop sex. I love her and I want to keep her happy. So I don't push it, but I don't want kids right now and I asked if there was anything I can take, turns out there isn't any viable option for me right now. I would give anything to not have all those hormones pushed into her body. But this has taught me we either have to sit down and compromise or..we have to end this. So keep your man hater comments to yourself..(little girl directly below) and don't take your frustrations out on me.
2006-07-27 04:01:51 · update #1
Well first she should go to the doc either today or defiantly tomorrow. if you really do care about her and if she cares about you. the two of you need to sit down and talk. no don't force her to take birth control but let her know how you feel about kids at the present. if she really loves you and feels the same way about kids she will compromise. there are some good things about birth control you two should look into the different types maybe find one with a low does of hormone they do make them. but defiantly have her see a doc. something could be seriously wrong with her right now.
2006-07-27 04:13:46 · answer #1 · answered by ctrygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be having a miscarriage she would only need to go to the hospital/doctor if the bleeding got real heavy.
And yes you two should be using birth control! I would insist on it if I were you!
2006-07-27 04:28:00 · answer #2 · answered by running2adream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slightly agree with the lady above!! But heh it takes two!
I'd get her to go docs today just incsase she is miscarrying I had one and had loads of problems after. If you both love each other that much bc shouldn't need to be pushed really !!
2006-07-27 04:06:48 · answer #3 · answered by stan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've been having unprotected sex for six months and she is now bleeding, count your blessings. What an incredible jerk, you want to force her to take BC pills? Why don't you get a vasectomy? Or keep your pants on if you don't want kids. You guys amaze me, it's not about her, or whether or not she is ok, it's all about you and what you want, you make me sick.
2006-07-27 03:54:19 · answer #4 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You must haved banged her pretty hard in bed and ruptured something it sound like you busted her Filipino tube or something dude.
2006-07-27 04:09:38 · answer #5 · answered by Troubled son 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋