I have a special friend, and of course I met her on line. We communicate through email; because we are both at work when we talk. She doesn't have a PC at home. We have become quite close, or at least that's what she leads me to believe. Her company was bought out, and they are replacing everything including the computers. So she doesn't know how long it will be before she gets to talk to me again. She says it may be a long time before the next time. I hope this is not a lie. I feel that if she wanted to end things she would just simply ignore me and just never write me again. Do you think it's out of line for me to ask her for her number?
2006-07-27 03:23:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I just don't want to cross my bouderies with her. She could be a totally different person in person.
2006-07-27 03:40:59 · update #1
Give her your number and ask her to call you.
2006-07-27 03:27:02 · answer #1 · answered by Ain't Not Cool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how long you've been chatting online, but if this is a person you want a relatinship with you should have had her phone number a long time ago and you should have met.
But don't meet anyone alone -- set it up in a public place for a lunch date or a drink if you are of age.
Relationships that are only online cannot go anywhere.
2006-07-27 10:27:41 · answer #2 · answered by DD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let's see, I don't see any harm in asking for a number. If she is really interested in you, then she won't have a problem giving you her number. If she does have a problem with it, then you may want to reevaluate your relationship, that's if you even have one. Talking back and forth on the computer does not constitute a relationship unless one of the parties officially says that you all are dating or introduces you as their girlfriend/boyfriend. But yeah, I would say go for it and see what she has to say about it.
2006-07-27 10:32:55 · answer #3 · answered by curleysue272000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but it's also not out of line for her to refuse. She may be a little shy about giving out phone numbers but still feels close to you and would like to keep chatting via email.
2006-07-27 10:27:45 · answer #4 · answered by jjbeard926 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not... I really don't buy into that "just mail buddies" thing... It's really silly to think like this when you could have a really close and reliable friend that you can do a lot of things with... Ask her phone number, than tell her to meet you for a coffee, or smth like that.
2006-07-27 10:37:23 · answer #5 · answered by Firefly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a brush off to me. She could have offered her phone # if that is what she wanted to do. Are you even sure if "she" is actually the person you think she is ? I mean it could be a 50 yr old man acting like a girl. You never know. I wouldn't ask for the #.
2006-07-27 10:27:25 · answer #6 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, no! You can ask for her phone number. I mean, really, if she gets offended by you taking an interest in her then you would have to maybe rethink the relationship anyways. Go for it
2006-07-27 10:26:52 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not out of line, but don't be surprised if you don't get it. Talking online is "fantasy"for some and she may want to leave it at just that.
2006-07-27 10:28:00 · answer #8 · answered by kdj204 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can ask for her number
2006-07-27 15:13:26 · answer #9 · answered by Chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with DAT CAT, give your number to her, and see if she calls. Then you will know if she got scred form being too close, or if she is interested in you...Isn't this cute?? Lesbian Lovers!!!
2006-07-27 10:31:15 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋