i have 2 best friends who have boyfriends and because of that, they neglect me a little...like make me wait for ages while they are on the phone and stuff
once i heard one of them say "its ok, i'll chat to ya for another 10 mins, its not like if i have anything better to do" WHILE I WAS WAITING....ROTTING!
I hated it, so i made other friends and became quite close to one of them, she hangs with us now so it is the 4 of us...but now my 2 best friends accuse me of "forgetting who my friends are" because i stay neutral in little arguments between them and my new friend...
i trust my 2 best friends with all my heart (been best friends for 6 years now) and now i just feel torn because they dont treat me with as much respect and think that i like my new friend more than them...its like if they are making me choose!
i like my new friend but not enough to leave my other friends, i just want them all to get along.
2006-07-27 03:06:06 · 6 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need to tell you best friends how you feel, ive been there trust me in cases like these honesty is the best policy.
Tell then exactly how you felt and feel now, you have to remember the older you get the worst some situations can get if no one talks.
If they go off on one leave them, do not go after them, they are the ones in the wrong and trust, they will be the ones running back to you once they have thought about what was siad and the way the reacted about it.
Friends should show each other respect, i think your old best friends are taking you for granted and your new friend realises that you are a nice loving caring friend.
If you old friends loose you they will quickly be back.
Don't worry.
Talk to then they will understand......................................eventually.
2006-07-27 03:15:01 · answer #1 · answered by Angel666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your new friend may well become your new best friend. but r u jealous of your 2 friends havin boyfriends and can go out as couples and you feel left out?
2006-07-27 03:17:20 · answer #2 · answered by weso 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you hang out with the friends that are there for you and be casual with the ones who barley are around , ok
2006-07-27 03:24:14 · answer #3 · answered by jojo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we make friends to keep and to lose some.
grow with your friends or you will loose them.
make them want you by being relevant and make your self
invaluable.
2006-07-27 03:15:03 · answer #4 · answered by ineem20012005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust ur heart u already know the answer
2006-07-27 03:10:33 · answer #5 · answered by Andrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them how you feel ^_^
2006-07-27 04:38:59 · answer #6 · answered by Japan_is_home 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋