2006-07-27 02:56:36 · 11 answers · asked by thea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
R U? You must have something or someone else on your mind....
2006-07-27 02:59:50 · answer #1 · answered by a1quick57 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And why have you lost your zing for sex. Possibly cause your not as attracted to your hubby ? Are could it be cause your sex life is boring you. Are could it be both. My suggestion and its only a suggestion cause I need more input on what the problem is, try sitting up a Friday night dinner in a romantic spot. Have a motel room rented for a night. That way you will both be alone and be able to let the Fur fly ( ole redneck expression) . But explore your sexual desires. try things that you always wanted to try , Make your sex life exciting like you wanted it before. Cause seems to me your sex life was alright it wasn't what you really wanted. So let it go . And tell him what you expect too. Have chocies in what you would like to happen. But most of all get back what you wanted in your sexual life. then you can make him feel wanted again. Good luck
2006-07-27 10:08:27 · answer #2 · answered by Fox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not frigid. You are just going through a phase that all women go through from time to time. It has happened to a lot of my friends and to myself. Try to explain it to him, find some material on the Internet to back it up, believe it is real. If you have sex anyway it could hurt. That is also a proven fact. Don't feel like he will go elsewhere if you don't have sex with him. If he loves you he will understand what you are going through and wait it out. God Bless You and good luck.
2006-07-27 10:03:43 · answer #3 · answered by Rebecca N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. I know the feeling. And the more he nags you, the worse you'll feel and the more interest you'll lose. And so on and so on.
You are not frigid.
It would be great if you could talk to him and get him to back off for a while.
And usually, there are hundreds of possible reasons for it happening in the first place......money....kids..age etc.......Without knowing more about you.....and I'm not trying to find out.....it's difficult to say more. Just ask him to get off your case.
2006-07-27 10:10:50 · answer #4 · answered by lou b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you lost interest in sex, or in him?
Are you living a really busy life or got a stressful one?
Many things can cause you to lose your sex drive and maybe you never lost it at all but life is hiding it beneath all the BS one can get in life.
Are you tired?
Does he make you feel sexy?
Do you feel sexy in yourself ever?
Hmmmm, many things to consider before giving up with the conclusion of losing your sex drive.
And, if you have lost your drive, do you not pleasure to make him happy?
Try romancing each other, get each others bodies tingling under each other fingers, get him to discover your switching off button to turn you on by relaxing you, massages and hot baths, soft music etc. It doesn't have to involve intercourse if you don't feel up to that
Talk to him too that's really important so he doesn't feel rejected by the lack of intimacy.
Intimacy between two is the best way to express our love for each other
2006-07-27 10:05:42 · answer #5 · answered by WW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is a recent or sudden problem, go see a doctor. You may have a hormone imbalance affecting your sex drive. Some birth control methods can also affect you libido. Could be that you guys just need to reconnect with each other. Go on dates together, have time alone with each other, see if that helps. Good luck!
2006-07-27 10:01:36 · answer #6 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your husband and you get on well do you live a separate lives and do you guys do anything to getter are you in love with someone else and do you feel like its all over with him, question your self and find out whats wrong then you can sit down and make your decision with him. try to be honest with your self it is better for the relationship and for your life
2006-07-27 10:09:30 · answer #7 · answered by stoned69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to fix this asap. Losing sex in a marriage is a one way street to divorce. You can either start receiving counseling for whatever issues you might have or go to your doctor. They have meds they can give you that works like Viagra for women. If you love your husband do whatever it takes to fix this.
2006-07-27 10:03:08 · answer #8 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did that too. Did you gain weight? Gaining weight will do that to you. Maybe if you lose weight and tan and feel really sexy, then you will want sex.
2006-07-27 10:00:26 · answer #9 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pl. mention age of both and how long u have been married.....got get correct suggestions
2006-07-27 10:00:21 · answer #10 · answered by sunil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋