he is studing with me and he was a good fren but because of the **** feeling in my mind i couldnt talk with him face to face thinking he would come to know that i like him.........n finally he thought that i m not interested in his friendship and stopped even talking with me.but now i dont want anything except his friendshp . what to do??
2006-07-27 02:11:51 · 6 answers · asked by pal m 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Higher Education (University +)
See dont let this feeling to come in your mind that u'll lose her. Thats the first thing u should be positive about. If he is not talking to u den do one thing call him sumwre and just tell him clearly watever u think about him.Its the best possible thing u can do. U cant let everything hangin in the middle. U must take one side.
And for all dat u must hav to pile up a lot of courage within yourself.
2006-07-27 02:23:25 · answer #1 · answered by jack_robinson31 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm a guy and was in a very similiar situation with a one of my female friends. We were friends for a couple of years and grew very close. She knew how I felt because I couldn't hold it back. I always feel if you want something, you have to go for it. So we spoke on a few occasions and i let her know how I felt. She made it clear she wasn't interested in anything more than friendship. Well as time passed on, she realized she felt the same way about me. We've been together now for more than six years and live together. She was a high school friend and in college is when things started progressing. Things do work out in life like they do in the movies.
By the way, I am not making this up to give you confidence or anything. Like I said, if you want it, you have to fight for it. No one else will fight for you.
2006-07-27 09:19:32 · answer #2 · answered by Borat Sagdiyev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he s still studying with u then just go upto him and say sorry..... say that it was because of stress and study pressure u were not able to interact with him and u just want him to forget everything because u sincerely respect him as a person.....
and i dont think u just wanna be friends with him....
just make gestures ( not direct, only that he s special for u ) and start sharing ur thoughts with him.....
do things which he likes and i am sure u do......
do simple things as being happy over his success and trust me sharing thoughts does hve a tremendous effect on guys.....
anyways, pls do this and if u have any probs mail me kool_leo87@yahoo.co.in.....
or post ur ques here, someone ll help u out....
2006-07-27 09:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by LEO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just recently told a guy how i felt towards him, the whole i have feelings for you, blah blah blah...and it took a lot of guts but you have to just tell the person and just ask if he can or does have the same feelings for you...my guy said that he didn't feel anything that way for me, but as soon as he told me that i didn't have a chance pretty much, i've moved on...i feel better after getting it out and even if he does say he don't like you, you can move on very quickly...
2006-07-27 09:22:15 · answer #4 · answered by Erin o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to disclose your feelings.
Explain how you feel to him.
Get help from another friend.
2006-07-27 09:20:03 · answer #5 · answered by mickyyyyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him for a pizza treat
2006-07-27 09:24:06 · answer #6 · answered by nirwancafe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋