I've just had a text conversation with my partner as we had been on a 2 week break at his request. we had planned to meet this weekend- in the conversation he never mentioned this so I bit the bullet and asked him- he text back saying he might go away with his parents and that it sounded that i was having "a great time" (I've had to get out though otherwise i would be some snivelling idiot for 2 weeks)
I've sent him one back saying I want to know where is stand and that he shouldnt play games- hes not got back to me yet.
Is he being a coward- I cant believe it
I dont know what to do
2006-07-27 02:11:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He's now texted to say he'll ring me tonight so we can talk- he though i wasnt interested!
2006-07-27 02:31:27 · update #1
You poor soul I feel for you especially if it is the same guy who told you he was ill and needed a break. If so, you need to go out and enjoy yourself and forget all about him. Don't expend your energy even thinking about him he is not worth a light. He is just a coward, tell him to take a hike if he tries to contact you again. He is just full of so much Sh!te.
Good luck and all the best and remember there are plenty more fish in the sea. You will look back in time to come and wonder what ever you saw in him. There is someone special out there for you and it is not him.
2006-07-27 02:16:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you are obviously having a lot of problems in this relationship or you would not be on a break. Maybe it is hurting him that you appear to be getting along fine without him by going out etc.... Tell him how you really feel and ask him his feelings and take it from there. Also, have you both talked over the problems you were having that caused you to take a break from each other as these problems need to be addressed as they are not going to go away by them self. Good luck x
2006-07-27 09:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by happyflamepepper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How strange - a relationship by text ! If you want a perfectly frank answer, he is not passionately in love with you, if he was there is no way that he would even consider going away with his parents and leaving you alone. That's fine as long as it suits you, some people don't want a passionate relationship ! However if you do want to be really loved dump him now. I really hope you find true love and happiness one day. Best wishes.
2006-07-27 09:41:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God wots with this 2 wk break rubbish ..how the hell can you put a time on a break .. its like oh hang on I'll tell her its off for 2 wks and go and see if i can find a bigger fish to fry if not after the 2 wks i'll get bk with her... for goodness sake give ur head a shake if he loved you he wouldnt want a "break"..
2006-07-29 14:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by lizzie d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is trying to avoid u, he might be trying not to hurt you but he is toooo much! he should not do this to you.. when a man loves a girl, there should be no secret. U might love him so much and never want to lose him but if he is not being true to u, just leave him away. You deserved for some one better. if you dump him, you will feel hurt for few months or more but after that you will find that u made a good decision. Remember, true love should not be hurting.
be strong!
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2006-07-27 09:33:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes upset...maybe he dosent think that you care of miss him....he may be taking your going out as an insult and it probably hurt him...so instead of just coming out and saying it hes trying to hurt your feelings with his words...you should text him with we need to talk and just sit down you and him and talk about where things are heading...and talk about how you guys feel about one another and the break that you guys have been on for 2 weeks...i wish you the best...good luck
2006-07-27 09:23:49 · answer #6 · answered by E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"break" usually means breakup. Everything that you have said he does points to him wanting out of the relationship. For now, I would just hang in there. If you really want to be with him, wait it out. Give him some time and see what happens.
2006-07-27 09:17:04 · answer #7 · answered by okie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he is having his own good time. Just do your thing and have fun. If he wants to work it out, he'll let you know, but in the meantime, just move on the best way you know how and enjoy yourself.
2006-07-27 09:16:24 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs.King 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men need time.. when you ask point blank usually they are afraid of saying something that might or might not upset you more. Give it a few days and if he doesn't text or call you just dump him.
2006-07-27 09:15:21 · answer #9 · answered by knifelvr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been together? He may be testing you as he seems to know you have been out enjoying yourself. He's after your reaction. Perhaps he's jealous as he wanted the break and you have gone out and enjoyed yourself. Not your fault you dealt with the break better than he did.
2006-07-27 09:18:10 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs Captain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋