I love her and i dont want to get divorce coz i was thinking that i will have no life without her , what can i do for her to forgive me i could like her to stay. what can i do ?
2006-07-27 02:05:02 · 10 answers · asked by girly girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Mistake happens..If she loves her, she should forgive u
2006-07-27 02:10:22 · answer #1 · answered by snow l 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all you shouldn't have never cheated. She is going to make your life so hard to live because if she was to stay she would never ever be able to trust her again. So if you can talk her into staying you will have questions in your face all the time where were you, where have you been, who have you been talking to, why was you gone so long? Are you ready to deal with this? Are you guys willing to go to counseling and stuff like that. Also try to go to church it really helps trust me. Can's do anything about it really unless you put GOD first. Then talk to him about it. Tell her that you are willing to do these things if she stays. Remind her of how much you do love her. I understand that people make mistakes but this is the hardest one to forgive someone for. And don't just tell her this stuff actually do it with her. I believe in second chances but if you mess up again there is no 3rd so just remember keep it in your pants. Good luck.
2006-07-27 02:17:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have thought about this before cheating on her. When you love someone you don't want to hurt him/her. I guess you are really bothered by the fact that she ended the relationship. Sort of a male ego. If you really love her, try to make it up, but it will be extremely difficult as trust is gone.
2016-03-27 01:12:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you serious! you're lucky she just bit it! why did you cheat? i'm not saying you don't love her. (you'd have to love a woman who would bite you're "stuff" and you want to stay! if you get stupid and cheat again, she may do worse! you're brave!) you need to give her time. i'm sure she's hurting. it's going to take time for her to trust you again. you threw that away when you were unfaithful to her. when the time is appropriate, sit down with her and tell how you feel. remind her that you love her and BEG for forgiveness. you'll be lucky and should be grateful if she takes you back. good luck with the healing!! mentally and physically
2006-07-27 02:25:18 · answer #4 · answered by luvmuzik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully she'd be wise to follow through with divorcing your sorry b***. Even if she forgives, a woman never forgets. The memories of how you disrespected her and you vows of marriage would always haunt her whenever you are late, out with friends, she will never forget and be able to completely resume a comfortable realtionship with you... Maybe your lover is still available!
2006-07-27 03:04:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol if i was her i would have done more then bite it i would have taken the butcher knife to it.You need to tell her how you feel and listen to how she feels you have betrayed her and her trust and if she wants to salvage this its going to take a loooonng time before u win her trust back.That is the worst hurt that you could do to her.You guys may want to try couples councelling to try and resolve this.You need to ask yourself why you cheated.And if you didnt want to lose her and cant see ur life without her you should of thought about that before u let the bald avenger out to play with someone else shouldnt have u?
2006-07-27 02:11:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why cheat ??? I feel sorry for her. Wait for her to cool down and do every single thing that you know she loves. Let this be a first and last lesson for you, DON'T CHEAT unless you want to be cheated.
2006-07-27 02:12:42 · answer #7 · answered by j t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing-she's outta there. Should have thought of that when you were cheating. I hope you learned something.
2006-07-27 02:49:48 · answer #8 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u loved her u would have never cheated
2006-07-27 02:18:47 · answer #9 · answered by heather f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really loved her then you would have NEVER cheated....
2006-07-27 02:08:45 · answer #10 · answered by panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋