2006-07-27 01:54:08 · 18 answers · asked by easygoinguy1968 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wrong is a relative term, you can do it but you have to be very careful, and you have to realize that it may blow up in your face and you will lose your wife. I think you should decide what you want your wife or another woman, then act on it. Don't hurt her just because your horny, that is wrong.
2006-07-27 02:06:49 · answer #1 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well lets put it this way, how would you feel if you weren't giving it to her and she decided to go have a lover on the side? Also if it ever got out your marriage will never be the same again. Do you have kids I know after I had my kids my sex drive went into the negative, BIG TIME! It's something that just happens to "some" women. But I worked through it with my partner, and if it wasn't for us being opening and willing to talk about it we never would of got this far. And I sometimes think my sex life is higher than his now!
2006-07-27 09:41:49 · answer #2 · answered by kay2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By any chance do you remember any of your marriage vows? Guess not! Forsaking all others? Keeping you only unto thyself.
Maybe you were asleep when you said those words.
That aside there is no such thing as a discreet lover on the side.
Remember that lover is a woman also and will need your attention sooner or later just like your wife.
Give you wife the love she needs and she will give it back.
2006-07-27 09:07:05 · answer #3 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG only if u want to lose your wife,you have no morals,and you want to break your vows.Instead of cheating on your wife why dont you try talking to her and find out why shes not wanting sex that much.Maybe shes bored and u need to spice things up a bit.Maybe shes stressed and her libido is down and if so there our herbal supplements and creams u can by over the counter at any pharmacy.I went through the same thing and i went and got this cream called always and after a few applications it started helping me out.So if you really love your wife and cherish your marriage there are other steps to try then cheating.Maybe shes being nice and you dont satisfy her anymore would you like it if she decided to cheat on you?
2006-07-27 09:07:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's Wrong. If your wife doesn't like having sex with you maybe you need to spice it up some for her. Try something New! Make it fresh and exciting like it was when you first got married. Try making her feel extra special and beautiful. No woman can resist that from a man she loves.
2006-07-27 09:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by ladeebugs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that has got to be the dumbest question ever you have a wife at home who loves you how often do you trat her like she is the only person in this world that matters? try it 3-4 times a week on different days every time she will start to feel the love more and you wont have to resort to the side piece and you will be happier.and less guilty
2006-07-27 08:58:45 · answer #6 · answered by dlwill76 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you married your wife for better or worse, sickness and in health, to death do you part. Never cheat. Ever.
Now, for her part, if she loves you she should give her whole self to you, unconditionally. By withholding sex, it means she is putting herself above you and the marriage. There were things I didn't want to do with my wife but I did them because she wanted to and I wanted to make her happy. Her happiness was most important. So you and your wife need to come to a compromise where you both can be happy, but you should never cheat.
2006-07-27 09:21:25 · answer #7 · answered by scheib65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask? OF COURSE IT'S WRONG!!!! Talk to your wife about it. She's your mate you can talk about sex with her you know. And if you can't well, she's got issues then. Maybe she's taken another lover?
2006-07-27 09:00:57 · answer #8 · answered by corina381 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant do that that's wrong. make love making more romantic to her yes it sounds like a lot of work but you will get what you want. trust me think of romantic things and make a day out of it and she will fall right into it. you know like when guys are trying to get a girl how they have to put on the charm. even know you are married you still have to play that game.
2006-07-27 09:05:00 · answer #9 · answered by brandi g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there's guilt, disease passed on to your wife, exposure from the partner, pregnancy, etc.
If extra sex is more important than your wife, divorce her.
2006-07-27 09:02:23 · answer #10 · answered by cowgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋