i recently had a party and i invited everybodyfrom my class to my birthday party i called and talked to everybody and asked if they were coming some said they would call me back some said yeah they were comeing but nobody showed up to my dinner and i was there alon at the resteraunt in the dark corner sitting there by myself should i talk to these people anymore because they really hurt me that night and i am sick and tired of hearing petty excuses
2006-07-27 01:53:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Sociology
Just dump them. They've already let you know you're not a high priority to them, you don't owe them an explaination for finding new friends.
2006-07-27 02:20:52 · answer #1 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh, that's awful. I can't blame you if you don't want to talk to them anymore. This is what I would do. I would talk to each and everyone of them and ask them why they didn't come. Unless they can come up with a valid reason why they were a no-show, I wouldn't want to have anything to do with them. They shouldn't have said they're coming if they knew there's a possibility they can't make it. They could at least have called to let you know they'r not coming. That is so immature and irresponsible. You need to talk to them and let them know how you feel. You don't have to be ugly with them, but let them know they have offended you. Let them know you're the bigger person.
2006-07-27 09:01:20 · answer #2 · answered by Karmen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if these people have done it to you before. If you are close to the people you invited. I would confront them and let you know how you feel, and what happen. If you don't think they are worth it let them go you don't need them in your life.
2006-07-27 08:57:44 · answer #3 · answered by ktmorgan513 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you paying for their dinners? If someone paid for my dinner, I would definitely be there. Most people tell you one thing and do another. Don't take it personally - it's just the way people are.
2006-07-27 08:58:22 · answer #4 · answered by The Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them how it made you feel, one by one. The ones that try to make it up to you are your friends. The ones that blow you off are not worthy of having a friend that goes all out on them like that.
2006-07-27 08:57:13 · answer #5 · answered by MyBestFriendIsMuslim.....So? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of those people are your friends if they did that to you. Try finding people that really care about you. I wouldn't not talk to them and ignore them cause thats kinda childish. But I wouldn't try talking to them either.
2006-07-27 08:59:21 · answer #6 · answered by babyblue0222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to them. may be they expect the same as you think from your side...... why not surprise them and behave like nothing wrong happened at that night and also try to understand why all they did so!!!!!!!! Is something wrong from your side? if it is so, try to improve it or change it.
2006-07-27 09:00:44 · answer #7 · answered by smart_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋