Why is that you start lossing intrest on having sexs with your wife.?

Question

The pleasue u have in the first few years gradually comes down .. Is there any ways I keep going and if not increasing it but at least keep it to level that I had during first year ... Do not give me bookish answer pls .. Give me some practical answers

Answer 1

it is normal. how many times you eat a specific dish. sometimes it is good to go to fast food.

Answer 2

Why is sex so important to you? There will come a time in a man's life when sexual desire will also diminish and erectile dysfunction may become a problem. So the loss of interest in not gender specific. It happens to females as well. To slow down this process, both partners should eat healthy foods, exercise together and get regular check ups. They should keep communication between themselves strong and honest and always look for new and improved ways to stimulate, excite and satisfy each other with new looks, new techniques and new social activities that do not demand too much of either partner as they age. A couple that shares responsibility has a better love life than one where one does all of the giving and the other does all of the taking. Sex is desirable but not always necessary to stay interested in being with someone you really trust and care for. Work together and play together for common goals and shared values and keep a special place in your heart that only your Wife can fill. Never put other people and things ahead of your spouse and you will always have something going on.

Answer 3

Over the years we make a habit of having sex, whether we are in mood or not, whether our body is ready or not. Try not to worry, just relax and wait for a good moment. Don't go for sex if either of the partner is not in mood. Go for quality rather than for frquency.

Also a woman's responsibility increases with the passage of time. Try to reduce her duties by sharing or keeping some paid assitant.

Don't go for variations or experiments. I am telling u from my personal experience. Though change of place helps. All the best.

However I am married now for 11 years and I am not bored with my wife.

Answer 4

married people tend to become comfortable with each other. try something new. make some suggestions on spicing up with toys, books, visual aids. anything you or your wife can think of to improve things. change the bedroom into your private sex den. I'm assuming there are no children yet but if there is make time for just you and her. take her to a motel. and talking does more than you realize. good luck and keep trying. don't give up.
blessed be,
Elizabeth

Answer 5

It should get better. For me the closer we got the better the sex. We do a lot of fun sex things. Sure our busy lives get in the way sometimes, but you have to experiment and play and make it fun. You will never again feel the same newness or curiosity like you did when you met, but now that you are more comfortable with each other expand your horizons.....Different places, different rooms, different positions, add toys and videos and food....whatever.

Answer 6

u need to ensure your wife is still slim even she already gave birth to your babies (if), make sure she is always to be an attractive lady, u can buy her a woman magazines and u can read together with her, tell her that she can as pretty as the lady in the magazines if she keep up her good grooming. But do not tell her that she is no longer attractive, this will hurt her.. take her to go for shopping and let her know that u are going to take her to for facial, let her know that u did this because u love her (believe me, girls love it when their love ones say like that!)

If you want her to be slimmer like before, suggest to her that u want to go to gym or jog together, tell her that u want her to be around u as much as possible.
By this way, u are not only going to save your marriage but your wife will be happier, once she is happier she will just follow your instruction. Cheer up the relations & it will drive to a better sex! Do not simply go for other girl, avoid yourself from getting HIV!!!

Good luck and peace on earth.....!!
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Answer 7

Being men, we are pretty basic animals. We want sex!!!!!!! After being in a good relationship, we begin to appreciate the companionship and other parts of that relationship. We don't feel the need to jump in the sack to get our jollies as much as enjoyment of each other. Now knowing that animal still exists in us, we tend to look around and remember the days of physical conquests and wouldn't mind reliving it, but hopefully we keep that in check. Making love with your wife is so much better in the long run. Appreciate what you have.

Answer 8

the excitement and pleasure has come down because you have become ''used to each other''. you're in a rut. take her out for dinner and before you go, prepare a table with a nice bottle of wine and some crackers ,a nice bunch of red roses always helps. .tell her she is still as pretty as she was when you first met. think what you used to say and do before you were married to make her happy .do that again now she will love it

Answer 9

Well, I think it would help if you would concentrate more on your love to her and on her not on just the physical act. This way you will give more and receive more in bed even. If you think about the sex and the pleasure of course it will get reduced, but think about the bonds you have when you make love, only in this way you will be happier and more satisfied in bed even. She might also be feeling you are not so interested and she might lose interest. So get to work and good luck.

Answer 10

you wear a shirt for weeks, maybe months, it gets worn out and you throw it away, but if you take that same shirt, buy some dye and new buttons, its a new shirt!!! no answers from a book but innitiative is required, and common sense, if your used to doing it on the bed, go do it in the back garden at midnight with a couple of candles surrouding you! make it daring and exciting ( women loves this, they just dont want to admit it!) good luck

Answer 11

Well the reason probably is that she probably gave you everything the first years which means you got to the routine and now you don't feel excited, do nice things for her and try to care and believe me this will help, try to play little games like meet her at the park or a hotel to do it, buy her new clothes and new perfume to smell something diferent. good luck.