okay here it is-i had a fight wiv dis whole grp of frens...hne we left each other..the bargain was i wouldnt let out ne of their secrets if they didnt spread my "bad"(to them) things and make me have a bad reputtation nd thereby making it IMPOSSIBLE for me to have friends...only they didnt keep to it.they spread lies about me.WHAT SHOULD I DO??.,..my life is already sucking..help.
2006-07-27 01:27:42 · 16 answers · asked by shrutigiyer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ignore and deny! What friends, friends don't do that kind of things. Go out and find some real friends you can call friends make sure you are a little more choosier this time though. P.S If you keep telling yourself your life sucks then it will how about being a bit more positive . And make sure you don't go telling people things you don't want repeated, as it is always hard to keep a secret. Positive thinking brings positive things
2006-07-27 02:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by mermaiden_4_ever 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You might share a few things with your friends but never any real personal stuff because some people are not all that mature to handle info like that. Your closest friends are the only ones you ever share anything deep about yourself and there to be careful! Learn from your recent experience and be wiser in the future.
2006-07-27 08:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by December Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have told them anything. Some of your friends would probably go behind your back and tell everybody. Most of the time you do not need to tell everything you know. If you do, almost everyone in your school, church, work-area will know. Then the stories could get twisted up. This happened to my best friend, when somebosy thought she was pregnant and she hasn't been doing anything to even get pregnant.
Just don't tell everybody your business.
2006-07-27 08:35:53 · answer #3 · answered by Brandon S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry Honey! the world is lot bigger than you think and more open minded as well................A drop of dirt in an ocean wont make it dirty at all........or will it? You know the answer....forget about (I know its not easy) your past and these freinds and what they have done to you and about your reputaion...just try to make yourself busy with some productive things.....you have internet access...just use that....you will definately find new and good friends here and also around you..........who does not care about these things and moreover time is the great healer so ..............
Be patient and everything will be alright...
2006-07-27 08:34:09 · answer #4 · answered by littleboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I wouldn't let lies that are spread
by people that are not your friends bother you.
As far as keeping secrets, you are within your
right to dish out all of the dirty little bits on these
people, but what does that accomplish?
I suggest that you keep to your promise and
hold your tongue. You don't need to stoop to
their level to get revenge. Prove to these
people that you are the better person and
keep your promise.
Also, consider making better friends.
2006-07-27 08:35:37 · answer #5 · answered by jrhughes3068 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing is to GROW UP..
Next, act as if nothing happened.. No bad mouthing.
Just keep quiet and start to get another friend or two.
Then, quit doing anything that you do not want everyone to know about. No more bad stuff..
Everyone makes mistakes in life... Learn from your mistakes.
2006-07-27 08:33:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't associate with people that you have a bad feeling about. You are better than that. If they are so bored with their lives and they have to make you feel bad about yourself then you should just let them know what they did was wrong and just separate yourself from people that make you feel bad about yourself. Try to surround your self around a group of friends that are positive and try to set an example for those that are making it bad for you. Don't let them get you down because if you do then they win.
2006-07-27 08:34:45 · answer #7 · answered by Starlesha23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In future if you don't tell your secrets and people won't know.
Gossip is almost impossible to keep quiet, especially the good "bad" kind.
Learn from this and keep the gossip on the down low. Everybody learns this lesson eventually.
2006-07-27 08:33:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
i don't know if i will give u the correct answer , but some times we had to move on & focus on our future , this way we can forget the pain , & a lot of times the bad reputation can move away if we proved that we good bounteous persons , good luck
2006-07-27 08:41:15 · answer #9 · answered by lonely man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK YOU MESSED UP ALOT OF PEOPLE DO. TRUST IS SOMETHING THAT SOME PEOPLE TAKE LOOSELY SO DONT LET PEOPLE IN ON THINGS THAT ARE THAT DAMAGING TO YOU AND YOUR IMAGE NOW WHAT YOU GOT TO DO IS JUST RIDE IT OUT PEOPLE ONLY BELIEVE WHAT THEY WANT NOTHING WILL CHANGE THERE MIND. SO JUST DONT LET THEM KNOW IT GETS TO YOU AND THINGS WILL GET BETTER
2006-07-27 08:41:25 · answer #10 · answered by DAT CHIC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋