my boyfriend is leaving to go to texas here in a week he says he dosent know how long his is going to be there.
he says he loves me
DO YOU THINK HE WILL COME BACK OR IS HE JUST TRYING TO LEAVE ME?
2006-07-27 01:06:44 · 11 answers · asked by whosurmamma069 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
its too soon to stress on that yet.... hun.... oh, is it too soon for me to flirt??? see my point???
2006-07-27 01:10:47 · answer #1 · answered by teddybar67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard call! It sounds to me like you already have an answer brewing in the pit of your stomach...why not just be forw and ask him straight? This is my belief. I am 40 w/ 5 children and 23 yrs of marriage...so, I qualify in the arena of life! When the Lord chooses to remove something from my life whether for good, or for a season, it's usually to give me an opportunity to grow/mature or move on...maybe it wouldn't be a bad idea to have a few moments of prayer to ask the Lord what he has planned for your life and ask for wisdom re: this situation? The Lord is always generous in sharing his love and wisdom w/ those who seek Him. Maybe your dependence on him is to great? It is possible the Lord wants you to have identity aside from the boyfriend? Hard to say. Pray about it. He knows the beginning from the end. But know this either way..."it's not the end of the world"....You are worth much in the eyes of the Lord... w/ or w/o a boyfriend. You'll make it just fine! Best of everything friend....
2006-07-27 08:14:29 · answer #2 · answered by diane b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his boss demands from hem to go to Texas, he has to go. If he has a friend there and wants to visit him, it's logical to go. I'M TRYING TO SAY THAT YOU HAVE TO MAKE A SINCERE DISCUSSION BEFORE HE GOES. You have the right to know the reason of going there.
2006-07-27 08:13:03 · answer #3 · answered by super_sexy_amazona 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to sit down w/ him and really talk to him from the heart and let him know how feel. hay he needs to be honest w/ u before he leaves so u wont be hanging u know? both u deserve it so u can go on w/ both of ur lives,whether it be together or alone-good luck
2006-07-27 08:11:32 · answer #4 · answered by lonelyangel270 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, do you know why is he going there? Is he moving? If he is going for a visit or has something that he needs to do there, then need not worry. But if he is moving... Well, that is a different story.
And he loves you, right?
2006-07-27 08:13:31 · answer #5 · answered by hellothere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask him straight about his intentions. Make him sure that you're not someone he can play with and you want to know what he's planning to do. Be self-confident and straightforward! Wish you luck!!!
2006-07-27 08:14:48 · answer #6 · answered by LDL L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You failed to mention why he is going Is he going for vacation, to visit relatives, job interview,etc?
Alot depends on why he is going.
If it is meant to be for the two of you to be together, he will be back.
2006-07-27 08:12:50 · answer #7 · answered by ND M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will come back. my boyfriend is leaving me to back to virgina, but i know that he loves me and that he will always come back for me even if it take 10 more years.
2006-07-27 08:13:56 · answer #8 · answered by Socastee_Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it off for while he is away, then see what happens if and when he comes back...
2006-07-27 08:10:49 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open the door,let him out,when he comes back,have your new BF answer the door.................the rest should come to ya!
2006-07-27 08:12:30 · answer #10 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋