I believe that you can't love a person after such a short period of time, because you don't really know him or her. What do you think?
2006-07-27 00:57:54 · 12 answers · asked by Yoshi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He sounds like one of them clingy type.
2006-07-27 01:00:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just recently left my boyfriend of 2 years. Our relationship started out this way...he was way to close within the first couple of weeks. It did freak me out a little and I should have saw the "red flags". He became very obsessive and possessive. For a guy to be like that right of the bat (FROM MY EXPERIENCE.) is a bad bad bad bad sign. Either way it got so bad I couldn't take the verbal and mental abuse...it ended up that I had to go through a rash of shi* every time I went to work and another guy was working or when I went out with my sister or friends. It was crazy.
2006-07-27 01:03:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feelings of love can depelop soon after the begining of a relationship. You just need to continue to get to know each other better before you move in together or get married. He might have a hidden adgenda for loving you.
2006-07-27 01:01:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I completely agree with you. I had it happening once, and after a while I realized that he didn't love me but a perfect picture he created about me in that short period. And I am far away from being perfect!
2006-07-27 01:01:51 · answer #4 · answered by hellothere 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the line love at first sight will not be invented if it did'nt have a strong basis. why will you judge him, you won't know because your not him. let him love you, what is problem, unless you don't want to be love by him. falling in love can happen in a sec, then marraige in minutes, then together forever. just believe in the thing called love, and you will be happier.. =D
2006-07-27 01:16:08 · answer #5 · answered by deadmeat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have had the same problem.And I tell them that's nice.And they usually come back with "you don't love me?". I say NO!.I don't even know you that well, not yet.I need time to really know you, and time to learn that I can trust you with my deepest secrets.Of coarse that probably works on women because they all want to know deep dark secrets.good luck
2006-07-27 01:05:02 · answer #6 · answered by ronchoward 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps your so used to getting paid for sex you will never know what love is. Stop leading him on.
2006-07-27 01:04:08 · answer #7 · answered by josh l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People can love within seconds...
If you aren't happy or comfortable with him loving you, end it and move on...
2006-07-27 01:00:50 · answer #8 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really loves you time will tell
but if he just said it to keep you close to him(or as i call it control of you) then you neeed to tell him good bye
just give hima chance to prove himself
2006-07-27 01:29:52 · answer #9 · answered by whosurmamma069 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup hes the clingy type
2006-07-27 01:00:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋