and i have seen him a few times getting excited. i have told him am not very happy with it but he tells me its normal for lads to do it. but then he has a go at me just for chating to any lads or girls on chatrooms.
2006-07-27 00:40:22 · 28 answers · asked by shell 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Nope. its very common. ;)
2006-07-27 00:43:12 · answer #1 · answered by Akash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men and porn is perfectly natural.... it doesn't mean that he doesn't want you any less. Its just fantasy, not real, so no woman should really get upset about this, but then this comes with maturity and age.
You on the other hand.... are chatting with real people, and this is probably what he doesn't like... he's never going to get the opportunity of potentially meeting these porn starts, but you on the other hand could possibly meet these people...
I would rather a man I was involved with watched porn than go to chatrooms looking for cheap thrills.....
2006-07-27 00:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by Violent and bored 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sam, ever had a girlfriend? I watch more porn when I have a GF then when I don't. Why? Not sure. Men generally feel more aggressive in relationships toward the opposite sex compared to when they're single. Not sure why. It's rather annoying though. To answer your question, it's no big deal. However, if you're not cool with it you should tell him and he should somewhat listen. Chatting up people and watching porn are apples and oranges, one is personal and one is impersonal. I would'nt call him a hypoctire, would you prefer him chatting to people or watching porn?
2006-07-27 00:53:19 · answer #3 · answered by John R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first of all, using porn is as normal as masterbation itself, everyone does it (but won't admit it or will deny it when confronted) So ask him if he wants to use the internet for excitement do it in private. And as long as he still sees you as a turn on who cares? as far as chatting with other males in chat rooms that is a social setting no different than a bar room of people looking to find a relationship, many are married, bored, and lost respect for their wives or husbands, I would refrain from chat rooms as they are set up for disaster. If you want the single life you should be single otherwise stop the chat rooms after all what are you looking for in there?.
2006-07-27 00:45:50 · answer #4 · answered by distalbicept 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend is hypocritical. You should be allowed to chat on-line. It's your choice. Just as long as you don't intend to meet any lads in real-life. His porn addiction is healthy . People do look at porn and it's not intended to belittle you in anyway. It's just a bit of fun. Tell him to get real and not be so paranoid
2006-07-27 00:44:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both seem a little immature, to be honest. Why don't you stick to chatrooms and let him stick to his internet porn, that way, you'll both be happy. I must say, it wouldn't be the most attractive thing to see your partner getting excited at the scrubbers on the internet, yukkkk......
2006-07-27 00:43:43 · answer #6 · answered by lunarsky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That smells of double standards a bit!
However l'm a girl that likes porn, so l wouldn't get that mad, l don't think porn is right or wrong, up to the person really!
2006-07-27 00:48:13 · answer #7 · answered by London girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
porn was made for men,remember that. but if it's causing a conflict in the relationship, then he has to stop.tell him. better yet, get even by chatting on webdate*com as well. LOL!
2006-07-27 00:51:34 · answer #8 · answered by trixy a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a girl i was seeing looked at porn i would love it, But i know girls worry so he should at least be decreet about it(like a prev in a long anorak).
2006-07-27 00:46:06 · answer #9 · answered by Macka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I view the use of porn as a form of cheating. maybe I'm old fashioned, but it can be a mistress for some.
2006-07-27 00:44:46 · answer #10 · answered by Milkman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start looking at sites of men with big nobs and then see how he reacts when the boot is on the other foot!
2006-07-27 00:44:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋