well i m an indian girl,i m 17 and very much in luv with a guy.but his family does not approve of this coz they think my family background is not gud enuff.coz my dad married my mom is frm a lower caste.my bf belongs 2 d same caste as my father.his family is coaxing him 2 leave me but he doesnt want 2.we luv each other.what do u think we sud do?plz help us.it wud b a gr8 favour.
2006-07-27 00:28:48 · 6 answers · asked by madonna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ı understand your situation but dont forget, if things dont go well, it's your family you're going to ask for help. you are too young yet. love seems enourmous and irresistable but, it passes somehow.ı am 24 years old and ı remember days crying for my love and asking God to help me to live, enjoy my love forever. so what happened? 1 year later ı broke up with him and now going on my life. but my family is always with me.(but my reason to broke up with him had nothing to do with my family.)
Today my sister is in love wit a guy too old compared with her and my family does not approve that all. so what ı told her is the same; love passes by like time. but family is persistent.
2006-07-27 00:38:52 · answer #1 · answered by yasesit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can not commit yourself to religious beliefs then I doubt you can commit yourself to a marriage. Decide that you are a part of your parent's religion and do not see the boy anymore or decide you are not of their religion, but you can not fence straddle. Religion and marriage are two things in life that are all or none...
2006-07-27 07:38:00 · answer #2 · answered by onejazzyjul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its still time for you to grow up and understand the future you will have with him. what seems right in present does not remain right in future. both of you are young enough and there is still time give space to your relation and you will understand. focus on your studies and become something to have the confidence to fight alone. if both of you are right you will get each other
2006-07-27 07:58:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till 18 and then court marriage ok
2006-07-27 07:36:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the caste system should be long dead... you two should fight for your love... never mind everything.. with you and your guy together... it will be alright! no one else could make you two both happy without each other...
2006-07-27 07:43:28 · answer #5 · answered by unpretty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do not give up and fight till victory. I am sure that u win.
2006-07-27 07:31:25 · answer #6 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋