If you are married or involved in a so called serious relationship can you have other relationships with the opposite sex? What extent of relationship can one have? Is sex outside marriage wrong? While being married if you are friendly with other men or women, should there be a limit to the extent of relationship? Are love and sex complimentary? If you love somebody can't you have sex with somebody else? Sex is a physical requirement or is morality involved in sex too?
2006-07-26 23:56:48 · 9 answers · asked by Arun K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Of course you can have as many relatioships with as many people as you want as long as all people involved are good with it. They don't want you to do it, then obviously it's a bad thing and wouldn't work for that relatioshi but if your partenr is for it and even wants to tke part in it then no problem here. RESPECT!
2006-07-27 00:22:09 · answer #1 · answered by mama mia! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are married / involved, then there shouldn't be any sexual relationship with anyone else. That's cheating and yes it's immoral. Having a friend of the opposite sex is fine as long as you know where to draw the line with your emotions for them, if you can't, then don't go out looking for friends that you could potentially cheat with.
If you and your spouse are swingers, that'd be about the only time having sex outside your relationship is ok, but that's with your spouses permission. Unfortunately I still find it wrong to do even that considering how many diseases there are out there.
If you didn't want to be with your spouse, the one who you gave an ultimate commitment to, then you shouldn't have gotten married or involved in the first place if you are considering sex with other people.
2006-07-27 07:04:06 · answer #2 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Arun! I seriously don't understand why one person should go for sex with other person when he/she is in serious relationship with a person. IMO, it's immoral. It just shows that ur present relationship is not a real one and u r just starving for sex. Ofcourse, it depends on the persons maturity. But, as far as I can tell a person who haves sex with other person (even having a serious relationship) is immature. (This does not apply if the other person in serious relationship is impotent or something like that). Does, anyone have guts to tell ur partner that you are entering into a immoral contact with another person. U can't it means u r cheating the person who is loving u (the person who is in serious relation with u). Yes, u can have relationships with other persons too even if u r in serious relationship. but u should be just friendly to them and u know the meaning of friendhship... being friendly with females means u should behave as their brother. I don't understand when u r loving somebody how come any one can think sexually about the other person. it means u r not committed in ur love. yes sex is a physical requirement, but believe me u'll forget it in the time spawn. what gives u happy is just memories, the sweet nothings, words u talked to ur loved one. only these things will give u happy. (This is all my opinion, and rest is left to ur morality and principles.)
2006-07-27 07:08:36 · answer #3 · answered by Dvij 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can, but everyone will suffer a little, it all depends if you want that lifestyle, it is not immoral, or bad, just differant from the normal, united states type of relationship, that does not make it bad or wrong, if you can find the right people and all are willing to do it then great and good for all of you...I've been in that type of relationship before and everytime its seems that one of the women get jealous of the other and it doesn't work out in the long term, but short term it was alway great fun for all of us....
2006-07-27 07:02:21 · answer #4 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your up front with your partner about what you really want,and they agree then more power to ya,on the other hand if your hiding the truth from your mate and anyone else that your involved with then you should know for yourself that it's wrong,you don't need anyone here to tell you that.You only limit yourself as far as what you want or what level you want to go with these relationships when you lie about it.
2006-07-27 07:05:03 · answer #5 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are dog, sex is a physical and psychological requirement with morals involved.
2006-07-27 07:00:57 · answer #6 · answered by Billie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is WRONG to have sex with any one other than the love of your life! If we were together (thank god we are not!) and you were sleeping with other people, I would kick the hell out of you, then leave you and never take you back!
2006-07-27 07:01:45 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah.. sure u can have other relationship..
sex outside marriage are wrong!!
yeah there are limits!!
2006-07-27 07:04:28 · answer #8 · answered by izzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
incorrect. because god teel us love only one women or men.!
so in the sense. its a mortal sin.!
2006-07-27 07:05:11 · answer #9 · answered by cute_si_hayme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋