Hi, can sumone tell me the signs of a men being mentally abusive on a girl? For instance, my bf loves to doubt me with other men, and he calles me a BI***. he thinks i'm dating and having fun with other men and he loves to dump me everytime just to make me cry and see me get hurt.My tears is his strength. Each time i cry he will keep shouting tht i m not faithful to him and i am a sick girl.I showed so much love to him but he still tells me i am a DIRT. now he has dumped me again and i a m missing him a lot.He has off'd his phone.I dont know what to do!is my bf being ABUSIVE!
2006-07-26 23:24:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anisha81 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds like your man suffers for jealousy, trust and confidence problems. Try this. Instead of crying a begging and pleading with him try acting like it isn't bothering you, no matter what it takes. Try taking control of the situation instead of giving in. But that is only if you want him back. I think you could do better than someone who treats you like crap but feelings are tricky and I understand. So have at em.
2006-07-26 23:38:15 · answer #1 · answered by wraith1796 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you stupid anisha?!?!? This guy has major psychological problems and if you stay with him,he'll always use you as a punching bag. Without knowing him,i can tell you that he had a bad childhood,and has never had any positive relationships. He is probably not very good nor happy with his job,so just to make himself feel better, he downgrades you and abuses you. If you want any peace and happiness in your life,go out there and find yourself a normal guy so that both of you can be happy!
2006-07-27 06:50:39 · answer #2 · answered by sajid970 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's abuse. He's grooming you for the future. If you take this now and you're only his girlfriend...imagine how fast it'll turn physical after the wedding? Stand up for yourself...NEVER speak to him again.
NEVER allow a man to treat you like a dog.
2006-07-27 06:32:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, your boyfriend is abusive. Why would you want to stay with someone who is constantly hurting you like that? Dump him, get on with your life, and find someone who will treat you with respect and decency!
2006-07-27 06:30:42 · answer #4 · answered by Only_my_opinion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I AM NOT A WOMAN BUT MY WIFE THINKS THAT I AM GOD'S GIFT TO WOMEN, MEN, ANIMALS AND BROOMSTICKS. I AM LIVING A LIVING HELL BECAUSE OF MY WIFE'S INSECURITIES AND THE CONSTANT JEALOUSY. HOWEVER, THIS KIND OF BEHAVIOR IS A FORM OF MENTAL ILLNESS UNDER THE PARANOIA'S. HE IS AS PARANOID AS MY WIFE. MAYBE THEY COULD HOOK TOGETHER AND SEE THEM BURN!
2006-07-27 06:52:51 · answer #5 · answered by Billie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is abusive. turn it around. give him a taste of his own medicine. or use "backhanded" comments. like tell him most girls like a guy who is well endowed, but you like him the size he is. dont take that sh!t from him, or anyone
2006-07-27 06:31:04 · answer #6 · answered by redeye069 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He treats you that way because you let him.Staying with him is giving him permission to keep doing it.
2006-07-27 06:32:17 · answer #7 · answered by Troy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋