2006-07-26 23:14:56 · 10 answers · asked by tunachunks199 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My friends girlfriend comes running to me when they fall out or have an argument, just wondered why this was And why she doesnt go to a girl-mate?
2006-07-26 23:19:32 · update #1
I do back - off. But she insists now that we are friends aswell.
2006-07-26 23:22:49 · update #2
Please do not encourage her to do this, I am afraid that you need to be frank with her and simply tell her that you are friends with both her and her husband and that you do not want to get involved. Tell her simply that they need to sit down and try to discover why they keep falling out. She's sounds a little pathetic to me, hasn't anyone ever told her that you don't wash your dirty linen in public ? She needs to get some self respect and act with a little grace. There's a possibility that she has a personality problem and feel that she " needs someone " on her side. To be honest I feel sorry for her husband ! Good luck.
2006-07-26 23:48:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
It could mean that she fancies you, but also, as her boyfriends mate she may just want your input on the situation from a mans point of view and to kind of get you on her side so she can be sure that you are not gonna give her boyfriend any advice to get rid of her. My advice to you would be to steer clear of this kind of situation as it could get messy. She shouldnt be doing this to you as its not fair as he is your mate. So you just remember that HE is your mate and she is HIS misses so if you dont wana take sides or make your mate feel like crap then tell her its nothing to do with you or she will end up coming betwwen you, which mite be her plan or it might not. Good luck and be careful xx
2006-07-26 23:22:17 · answer #2 · answered by kelly d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Running to you as a friend? Then fine, she is comfortable with you to look to you for advice as you know your mate the best.
Running to you for other affection? Not a good thing as she is not only betraying your mate, but you also are betraying your friendship.
2006-07-26 23:18:00 · answer #3 · answered by Megs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means that you need to back the hell off her! Fights should be kept between the two individuals involves and the fact that HES your friend should show you where your loyalties lie.
It sounds to me like shes running to you first so that he cant go to you.
If your friendship means anything to you, you'll make yourself unavailable when she does go to you - be it not answering your phone or telling her straight out that you dont want to be involved.
2006-07-26 23:20:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a great way for her to get back at her boyfriend for upsetting her!
She gets to diss him to his friend while getting tender loving attention. What better way to really stick it to him?
You are absolutely right, she should seek out a female friend for support, not cozying up to you. Tell her so unless you want to find yourself dragged into her dramatic mess!
2006-07-26 23:28:02 · answer #5 · answered by mithril 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might want to bang you or else she just thinks of you as her comfort person
2006-07-26 23:22:12 · answer #6 · answered by lover_gurl_42019 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants you to be her wing man.
2006-07-26 23:21:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes you?
2006-07-27 00:12:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes you.
2006-07-26 23:17:36 · answer #9 · answered by Kelly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't understand the question.
2006-07-26 23:18:09 · answer #10 · answered by luvbuggies 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋