iv been gay and out for 3 years and my family, friends and strangers that i meet dont care, do you? and would you care if your brother, mum or best friend told you they were gay?
2006-07-26 22:46:13 · 22 answers · asked by manic jester 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
ok for the smart arses lol, i guess i was bi before then, but that wasnt the question i was asking
2006-07-26 22:52:02 · update #1
ok kids, thanks heaps for all your feedback, ok for thoses of you who mentioned the end of population, im not sure if you are aware of it or not but we have many problems in the world because of over population. for those who brought up the bible, im happy to see your not so blinded by your faith that you can see past it to even get to your computers. for thoses that brought of the issue of me saying i was once bi, well i slept with females and males then and now i would never sleep with a woman again so try argue that. what else did that make me at the time?
thanks again everyone for your opion, thats what this place is about right?
2006-07-27 03:37:20 · update #2
I don't care that you're gay. I'm glad that your friends and family accept your lifestyle, that is very important for you. I've actually had two best friends tell me they were gay and though I was a little surprised I was very cool with it. I like the gay community and think that heteros have a lot to learn from it about acceptance, being happy with yourself, etc.
2006-07-27 03:26:37 · answer #1 · answered by Kate C 3 · 6⤊ 6⤋
If you are gay now you where gay then.
I am bisexual and have always been bisexual I wish we had another term for us because gay people in denial give us a bad rep.
It doesn't matter that you are gay. I think I would be shocked if my mom or dad told me they where gay but then I think I know them pretty well and it would be as if I didn't really know them at all. If my sisters told me they where gay I would be surprised and a little shocked but then I am 40 years old and I have never noticed any gay behavior from them. I am not out of the closet and I know they would all be disappointed if I came out. I do not think they would be as shocked as I would be if it was reversed. I know they have long suspected at least my parents have my sisters I am not so sure about. I know they would still love me but my life is set I have married and have three daughters and this is the way I will live till I die. I think that if only those religious fanatics that get on here and bash us could live my life they would know that God made us this way it is not about a choice. I would not wish this on any one. I am thankful that so many can come out and find some support from their community. I wish that that had been available to me when I was a young single guy.
2006-07-27 06:55:47 · answer #2 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being gay is really a personal thing. It depends on the individuial and i think the age. I know when most people come out they go through the infactuation stage, then the tell the world stage. Alot of time one needs time to adjust to the fact that they are diffrent and explore thiere sexuality to find out who they are, to often one gets carried away in sharing more than others need to know.
we all go through a period of self accepting and it is hard to sk others to accept you or understand you when you don't understand yourself. later down the road you realize what you do in the privacy of the bedroom really isn't anyone elses business. It dosen't matter if others except you or like you, what is importain is that you know and love yourself. Having that under your belt you will radiate that inner peace and self acceptance that will attrack others to you no matter what your prefrance is. Be true to yourself and don't fool yourself
2006-07-27 09:17:36 · answer #3 · answered by spmq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
l think it does matter because it boggles the mind what the product of being gay is. l mean imagine if the entire world was full of only homosexuals our species would become extinct! literally! Homosexuality is unproductive and unnatural even nature itself is against it no animals on the planet practise it because they know they'd become extinct! My brother being gay is a horrible situation to be and it's a terrible sin before God.Although we can't change you deep down in your heart your conscience knows you've just read the TRUTH!
2006-07-27 06:33:29 · answer #4 · answered by blacksugar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have nothing against gay people because i think all people are equeal, but i think being gay isnt right! just think! ur penis is going to go into some guys ***, or the other way around! ur butt is meant for things to come out of it! not in it! i wouldnt care if i had any gay family members! family is family, love em no matter what! but it would be weird if to think of someone being gay and what gay people do during sex! ewww! oh and go ahead and be gay if u want! its ur life!
2006-07-27 07:13:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care what you are. I care that you say you were bi before that, though. Gives the impression that us Bi-folk have a choice to be either straight or gay. We DON'T. I don't care what you say you are. I care that you say you were bi before that, though. Gives the impression that us Bi-folk have a choice to be either straight or gay. We Don't. We have a choice to enter into gay or straight relationships - but we're always bi.
I know I'm nit-picking but there's enough ignorance out there. We have a choice to enter into gay or straight relationships - but we're always bi. Or everyone who claims to be bi is actually transitioning to gay/straight... you know what SOME people are like.
I know I'm nit-picking but there's enough ignorance out there - better to have said "I guess *I thought* I was Bi"
2006-07-27 06:56:33 · answer #6 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shouldn't matter to anyone, but it will to some. That's just the world we live in. I don't wear rainbow bumper stickers on my butt, and often when people learn I'm gay, they are surprised, but if they have gotten to know me (at work, etc.) they don't make a big deal of it.
2006-07-27 08:37:52 · answer #7 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I would not mind. Heck im gay and my parents know. They dont mind. So lets have a gay party. Lol. And my parents dont care.
2006-07-27 06:33:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as my husband says....the population will end if everyone turns gay. So I say its wrong. Even the Bible says so.
2006-07-27 09:03:29 · answer #9 · answered by baseballmommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't care. I wouldn't care if you were my brother, friend, or complete stranger (which you are!)
I say, live and let live. Love doesn't care what sex a person is.
2006-07-27 05:51:55 · answer #10 · answered by drewsilla01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt matter as long as youre happy with what you do and as long as you do no harm to other, go on. Dont deprive yourself of the happiness you are entitled to.
2006-07-27 09:49:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋