Please help. I'm putting my house up for sale to fund a round the world trip. My Dad wants to buy the house (he divorced Mum 25 years ago). However she has moved into a rented house which is there when you walk out the back gate (there's about 2 cars width between us). He says he'll give me the full asking price. Should I take my Dads money? He isn't bothered that she lives so close with my stepdad and their daughter.
I would like to go as soon as possible.
2006-07-26 22:38:27 · 10 answers · asked by LOAJP 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have moved on thanks. My mum hasn't
2006-07-26 22:50:18 · update #1
Sorr maybe I should have explained more. My Dad cheated on her and tried to make us three kids against each other but he's changed since his car crash 2 years ago.
2006-07-26 23:18:01 · update #2
Why not as long as everyone is OK with it all.
If your dad does by it you will be able to move quicker and you will defo have the full asking price, which is something you can not guarantee other wise, and if you are in a chain moving house can take months and months and months.
2006-07-26 22:42:56 · answer #1 · answered by jojitsui 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If they are both ok with living so close together then sell your house to your dad. They are both grown ups and I am sure that they will be able to work it out. However, if it were my mum and dad, them I would advise against it!! They have been divorced for 10 yrs and still would kill each other if they were in the same room!
2006-07-26 22:45:02 · answer #2 · answered by chelle0980 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is not any longer a lot you may do about it till your mom and father sit them down and say, "whats up, we've had it which includes your freeloading lazy buts. we'd like a smaller position and we are putting the abode on the marketplace. So I propose you get off your buts and get places of yoour own on account that there purely isn't anyroom contained in the hot position." Your figure's aren't to any extent further being selfish, your brothers are. in the experience that they prefer to stay there, per chance tyour mom and father ought to judge promoting the abode to them at what ever the marketplace value is. no longer something less than that. in the experience that they could't arise with the money for it, oh properly, then then favor to flow out. extra skill on your mom and father on getting them out of the abode yet till the arise against them, they are unlikely to be able to do it.
2016-10-15 06:24:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say your Mum hasn't moved on, yet she's re-married? Sounds pretty moved on to me ...
Let your Dad buy the house - but stick another £10k on the asking price first ha ha
2006-07-26 23:10:15 · answer #4 · answered by Away With The Fairies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is it a problem? if he knows they live there and still want to buy your house then there isnt a problem..... is he buying it to live in or to rent out?
my mum and dad actually live in same street across the road form each other and thats fine...... plus its easier when visiting!!
take the monay and have agood trip
2006-07-26 22:51:17 · answer #5 · answered by sinnedfairy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask you mum how she would feel about it. Your dad seems OK about it, otherwise he wouldn't be offering the full asking price...
2006-07-26 22:43:11 · answer #6 · answered by anchan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
errm
first must ask ur mums family how dey wud feel
and look 2 c if shes not just sayin yes - she has 2 mean yes
2006-07-26 22:41:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what exactly is the problem. your mum and dad have moved on, shouldn't you
2006-07-26 22:40:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask you mum how she feel about it or take the money and run ........ enjoy.....
2006-07-26 22:41:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take his money
2006-07-26 22:40:38 · answer #10 · answered by emmamac14 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋