I just have new partner. He is 51 years old. He divorced and didn’t have sex for 7 years. He love me very much and waiting for me to be with him for 3 years. He love my figures. I can make him hard but when it become to intercourse, it either he come straight away or his penis’s gone weak. If I do oral sex for him or help him by hand it seem to be he can stay hard and last longer. He said because I am very exciting for him ??? How can I do or help ?
2006-07-26 22:29:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Homeopathic Treatment :-
CONIUM MAC 200 Just one dose at alternative days will cure him in about a week or so. Just three doses in all and do not exceed the suggested dosage in any case. Report back with his symptoms after one week.
Take care and God Bless !
2006-07-26 22:43:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
hmmm... penis muscle? Don't buy THAT one... it's skin on the outside and mostly a spongy-like tissue on the inside that causes erections. But you're not asking about that... you want intercourse (and HE probably does, too!)
Hand and blow jobs are pretty exciting for most any guy, but it's not a question of him being able to get hard or to come... you've already said THAT works. Hopefully, he goes down on you, too... and maybe satisfies you in that way... if not, he should. Hell, you're doing everything you can for him!
He loves you, your figure and what you do for him to make him hard & to come (well, most of the time... but that's kinda normal).
If you haven't yet, you should ask him if there's any reason why he can't 'keep it up' to have intercourse with you... if he's heavy, overweight or has any heart or breathing problems, it might be difficult for him to have intercourse in the 'missionary position'.
Have you tried 'doing it' with you on top? That's easier for him, more exciting for a lot of men and more exciting or satisfying for a lot of women. If you haven't done THAT, you really should! Doggie-style is another way that might make it easier for him... and, again, you just might like that, too!
Just be sure that you two talk about it... don't just try to guess and keep it a secret. He just might think that you like things the way they are... hindi ba?
Hopefully, I've offered something that might help you out... or, to help HIM in! *smile*
2006-07-27 00:58:10 · answer #2 · answered by nomad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem might be in his sexual past activity and rather lack of it.
the srudies on human sexuality proven that man who has no active sexual life will become impotent or partial impotent (unabilty to keep erection) . 7 years for penis with no significant activity is very serious thing, I do not know if he have masturbated at least once a weak, but if it was more rarely it might be that his penis and body got used to fact that he finished his sex life and in some way forgot how to keep him "hard".
That is why it is so important to have at least masturbate while you have no partner so your body will be ready to respond in right time, please remember that penis and vagina are muscles, and every muscle not trained becomes week, so you have two options, one is viagra, other is hard work,
also please realize that woman comes the most often by plaing with her clitoris , so i would suggest you to ask your parter to "go down on you" with his tongue and you could aslo try longer foreplay, as woman needs foreplay to get "wet" man might need it to be aroused enough to keep erection.
also he might consult specialist and she/he will do testes which will find reasons, if their are biological or psychological
there is nothing to be worried about, all doctors are aware of such problems and if it would happend that some is kind of ignorant, find other one.
aslo remember that alcohol decrease erectile ability. (the negative effect of alcohol might not be noted only in young man, but it will occur later on if male drunk during his yough years)
2006-07-26 22:45:19 · answer #3 · answered by mrangelosd 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does happen some times- I believe you have to take your time and build things up so start with lots of foreplay and have fun exploring each others bodies, then try intercourse but take your time- he will build up his strenght- also invest in a **** ring- it keeps men hard and is very good- don't pressure him because that will affect him even more- make sure he knows you love him and that he excited you- good luck!
2006-07-26 22:33:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm same with my man hes 45 I'm 26 the longer you leave having sex the quicker he will ejaculate trying having sex more often trust me after 4 days he wont be able to ejaculate till later good luck
2006-07-27 06:33:58 · answer #5 · answered by munchie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to think of his grandma lol..
or leave the makeup off babes..
2006-07-26 22:34:44 · answer #6 · answered by gorgeoushunk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep practising
2006-07-26 22:32:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try meds
"Viagra"
2006-07-26 22:42:07 · answer #8 · answered by alexmr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋