weve been togeather for 2yrs now. we are moving in togeather tommorow, before this we was going to move into one of his bestfriend house's which he rents out. It all fell through and we ended up falling out with his best mate and his girlfriend, which my partner has been best friends with them both for 10yrs or so.
Anyway as i said we fell out with them for a few reasons about house, money, ect..... my partner feels like his best mates have really let him down, and so do i. Yesturday he was saying he wish's Lee (best pal ) would leave that *LAG, i said "hey thats abit harsh" and he replyed " no it ent cus i know for 100% shes done the dirty on him,
I then said how would you know for 100% unless it was you ? so i asked ... have you been with her before?
He said " iam not teeling you because its nothing to do with you !
So what he replyed made me put 2 and 2 togeather and get 4!
so later on i asked him again, and he said " if you want honesty babe then yes i did c her!
2006-07-26 22:17:31 · 8 answers · asked by sweets 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If it happened before he was with you, then fair enough - your boyfriend is allowed to have a past too.
He did however nob his friends girlfriend while they were together. I am not sure what this says about his idea of friendship.
2006-07-26 22:23:23 · answer #1 · answered by HP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's how he treats his best friend, then how's he gonna treat you? And he's been with you 2 years and known them 10? How do you know for sure that it wasn't happening while you were with him?
If it had happened before, you would have known it by now. There's a reason he's kept it from you to begin with.
He's bad news, baby, damaged goods. And you're so lucky to not have moved in with him. No wonder the deal fell through! That was such a close call. Move on!
2006-07-27 06:18:11 · answer #2 · answered by mithril 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its in the past. dont let it get to you. hes moving in with you he must really share something with you. its a big commitment.
if he starts to act weird or something i think you should have it all out with him. hes cheated on his best mate, its a little harsh. you need to have a discussion about it. it might of been a moment when he was drunk or something.
i dont think you should let it all go. you to can be stronger from this but you have to share everything together, your insecurities, problems and always tell the truth!
2006-07-27 05:23:55 · answer #3 · answered by zoe_fairy_on_acid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah dont let it affect you. mostly because it happened before you guys we're together and if he told you then he has full trust in you which is a very good thing trust is hard to gain. and even harder to get back once you lose it.
2006-07-27 05:23:27 · answer #4 · answered by sugrdady03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has their own skeletons in their past. Considering that he saw her while he was single, she's just another ex of his. Don't let that affect the good relationship you guys have now.
2006-07-27 05:23:25 · answer #5 · answered by LTD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that was the main reason , and you know the answer , better , help your b/f to forget past and live in-present happily with you .
2006-07-27 05:25:04 · answer #6 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes totally that guy is a cheat lose him
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