my bf saw me doing salsa with another guy on 12june n he immediately sent taunting n rude mesgs n i shud hav sex n remove my cloths with tht guy.I cleared up tht he was jus my dance partner n not my lover but he didnt believe. he said he will get all investigation done regarding tht guy n if he finds sumthing wrong, he will never contact me.My dance class got over on 18june.Now he hasnt contacted me since 1 month.I kept mesging till 10th july after tht i mesgd him tht i'l forget him coz he doesnt wana talk. even then he didnt reply n doesnt look at me.But when i don look at him,i find he's lookin at me. but since im not mesgin him , he sent 2 mesgs"tht he feels like throwin a stone at my car n slapping me".He seems 2 b extremely angry with me coz of tht guy whom he find better than himself in looks n riches.MY QUESTION IS ..WILL HE CONTACT ME SOMEDAY N REALISE THT I M NOT AT FAULT?HAS HE FORGOTTEN ME OR LIKES ME?PLZ ANSWER ME SOON IM VERY UPSET N I LOVE HIM N DON
2006-07-26 21:45:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he is a overly jealeous loser, count your blessings to be free of him
this is how abusive relationships start
he knows is not your fault somewhere in his twisted brain (maybe)
but that is how the abusive cycle starts of eroding your self confidence, self esteem; isolating you from other friends and activities;
see you are already looking for a fault with self..
(THERE IS NOT ONE!).
get over him and get some therapy in case you go back
2006-07-26 21:53:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it quite worth staying with him if he does no longer have confidence u and have faith what u tell him.The extra u protest year innocence he won't have faith u. merely msg an rather final msg. tell him u love him and u did no longer something incorrect . He shd have confidence u extra and be constructive that year love 4 him isn't so fragile that merely cos yet another guy is year dance companion u will go away him. The extra u touch him the less he will think of of u and picture that u have some thing 2 conceal. Reassure him of year love and enable him make the subsequent circulate.
2016-11-03 02:29:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this: Do you really need him to know that you were in the right? What kind of purpose is that going to serve, other than to allow you to gloat? Why do you want to be with a dude that is so blatantly disrespectful?
You need to know that you are worth more. A boyfriend that gets that insanely jealous and unstable about you sharing a dance lesson with another guy is probably not viewing you as a girlfriend, but more as a piece of property. I understand that you still have feelings for him and that you are hurt, but you don't need to be with someone that threatens to hurt you and damage your property.
Ignore him completely....move on.........take another dance class!!!!
2006-07-26 21:54:43 · answer #3 · answered by happydancergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's got jealousy issues. If you ever want to dance with male friends, he needs to get over it or you need to get rid of him.
Maybe you should express this to him (the fact that you will have male friends aside from him and he needs to be OK with that). If he can't be OK with it, do you really want to be with him?
2006-07-26 21:51:56 · answer #4 · answered by 006 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋