When my fiance left me when I was six months pregnant for another women.
He was upset with the weight gain. He said when I met you were skinny and now look at you. Your ankels are swollen, your so fat and just not pretty anymore.
He said he would only be in the delievery room if his gf could come with. I said no. He never came to the hospital to see his baby.
He said if she asks who her father is tell her you picked her off an apple tree.
Three weeks later he called and said when I lost the weight we would get married and I said f.u.c.k. you.
Then when the judge said he only had to pay eleven dollars a month child support because I was making tripple then he was.
And that I did not need the child support because I made tripple what he did. She said he did have to pay something, and she figured out his income and told him what he had to pay.
He worked for cash. He is also a race car driver and dam good and wins a lot of money during racing season. I called to tell them and they told me they could not count his racing income because there was no guarantee he would win each race
. He also told the judge that I came from a well to do family and that I was a spoiled brat and gets everything I want so my family will help support the child...
Then there was the issue of him wanting to see the child since he was now paying.
He was granted visistation two days a week. I had to provide transportation to his town to the ymca and pay thirty bucks and hour. I refused to pay.
I said he can come to my town. and I was told there is no YMCA and since you make more you can take her to him and pay the 30 bucks and hour.
The visits were for two hours a time so it would cost 120.00 a week plus gas. I was court ordered. I drove over and hour each way twice a week because I was court ordered.
That did not last long, and I would show up and wait and wait and he would not show. What pissed me off I still had to pay because the room was reserved.
I called the judge and was told I still had to be there because it was court ordered and he might show.
He contacted a social worker and said i was not working around his hours. and that he wanted more time with his daughter. I refused to pay more.
And I told the social worker to **** off and leave me alone. and i stopped going to ymca.
Then the fucker calls and saids you give me 25 gran and I will leave you alone and if you dont pay I will kid nap our daughter and leave the state
. My family was going to pay him off and I said no. I took him to court and had a restraining put on him.
2006-07-26 21:54:03
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answered by Anonymous
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When one day my landlord laughed at me, as soon as I talked to him about some of my beliefs as far as religion is concerned.
I do not get angry easily, but when some people become so rude and pretend to be clever without even having opened any book, then this is too much...although I have started getting over it recently after all of the experience I have received and the research I have done. Because I actually KNOW how wrong they are...
I locked myself into my room and got so angry...suddenly I realised that my lamp would turn on and off...as if it was about to die. I don't know whether I caused this or not, it could have been because I was boiling with anger! I had never felt such strong feelings inside my soul!!
Another time I got angry with my aunt while she was carressing my dog, so I wished from inside me: "I wish he bites you right now!!" And guess what: As soon as I had wished it, Timmy bit her! And when she was about to visit a village, I said to my mother: "You will see that she will break her leg" -since she would always wear high heals and the village did not have any proper roads- and the final result: She did break her leg!
If I have caused all this, I do not know. But it makes you think, does it not? Have you ever read about people's aura? Have you seen how an outraged person's aura looks like? Scientists have actually taken photos of it. I believe that it does affect our environment and that it also penetrates into other people's auras as well, if they are not protected...
Natalie.
2006-07-27 05:50:31
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answered by Natalie P 2
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It was when I was attacked by my neighbour, I played the civilised one and put it behind us for a quiet life, but I still feel angry about it now and then, it happened over a year ago. At the time I was so fueled with anger I didn't think I could control it and calm down, but I did do the right thing and just go to the police.
2006-07-27 03:14:45
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answered by Nikki Rox 1
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When I lived in fear but tried resolving the problem to keep what was creating the fear.
I got so scared I feared how I would retaliate if this person had succeeded with what they were doing.
I created my own fear though for being too weak to be strong so I was creating my own anger because I was angry at myself for being too weak. I was so aware of everything and trying not to be ignorant about the situation. I wasn't ignorant but was in a helpless situation so had to learn that I couldn't change what didn't want to be changed, they had to an did do that for themselves.
2006-07-26 21:42:13
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answered by WW 5
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What a silly question?
how can a moment of anger be GREAT!!!
surely you should of asked how did you suppress your worst moment of anger.
Isn't there enough unrest in the world we live in!!!
2006-07-26 22:01:16
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answered by tezzainia 1
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I got a phone call from my best friends wife, she told me my friend had been killed in Iraq. He was my childhood friend, and wen to Iraq to help the Iraqi people.
That happened in June of 04. I am still angry.
I now violence effects the lives of everyone. But this time it was me. I find that the loss of my friend has filled me with rage and hate that I cant seem to subside.
That is my burden, learning to live with loss.
2006-07-26 21:44:16
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answered by Jon H 5
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when my husband told me that he wanted to get a divorce and that he had fallen out of love for me and then i discovered he was in love with another.. that was the greatest anger i had experienced..
2006-07-26 21:37:45
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answered by Anonymous
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I hardly ever get angry.... I think the only time I can remember being reall angry was in Lower 6th art class... I was literally yelling at my friend... she accused me of excluding her from a holiday (me and another friend went) even though I had phoned her twice to beg her to come! She denied me phoning her, or even mentioning it to her. I was soooo mad, because she turned all my other friends against me by making me look like a sneak!
2006-07-26 21:41:11
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answered by Rox 4
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when a group of 6 guys 18-19 years of age bashed my 16year old son unconscious.
2006-07-26 21:42:02
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answered by gonetotallymad 3
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When i found out my boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend from work and she sat there talking to me like she had nothing wrong
2006-07-26 22:02:44
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answered by Karen C 2
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