2006-07-26 21:08:22 · 15 answers · asked by sowmya cfygiuhiou[9opi098907u8gf 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Its too late for an abortion. Carry the baby to term and give it to a couple who cant have children they will love it to the end of time. And in the future if you do not want to have children be more careful when having sex or abstain from sex. The baby didnt ask for life you gave it life now you have to face the situation in front of you. All you can do is hold you head up high and give this baby the best life possible whether it is keeping it and you taking are of it or giving it to someone who will take the best care possible. Good luck I hope you make the right decision.
2006-07-26 21:16:09 · answer #1 · answered by eeyore_0816 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm really sorry for you. I can see that the postings before me have not been able to give you a specific help that you might be looking for at this juncture. I do not think I can either. But the only way left is to confide is someone who is close and with an open mind. For the moment, I think you have nothign to fear except non acceptance. Hopefully time will come your rescue if that happens. Perhaps you should let those persons know it who you like a lot and who you do not want to learn of it. Known people are better in this situation than strangers.
2006-07-27 05:08:20 · answer #2 · answered by mu mu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to take 'tablets' to have an abortion..although herbal abortion methods do exist they are very dangerous. 4 months is a little too far along, imo, to be thinking about an abortion. You really should have done it sooner.
From your outstanding grammar skills, I'm guessing you are young and haven't told your parents about being pregnant...you are starting to really show and are scared that they will find out. Suck up the fear and let them know what's going on. They can help you find a doctor if you really do want to abort.
2006-07-27 04:17:59 · answer #3 · answered by laetusatheos 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there,
Im sorry to hear your situation but I can answer your question as I work in a womens hospital and we do a lot of terminations. It is too late for any tablets and the only way you can abort is surgically. But you need to hurry as you will not find many doctors who will perform the procedure after 18 weeks unless your life is in danger. Take care of yourself and have some sounselling as it will help!
2006-07-27 04:51:29 · answer #4 · answered by bronnie_ruby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe that anyone would want to kill their baby. I think that any mother who has an abortion is just as bad as a serial killer and should be put away for murder. What is the difference between killing old people or killing a baby. Except that it is legal to kill babies as long as you have a piece of paper saying murderer.
You are a terrible person. You should have thought of that before you got pregnant and there is other options as to not being responsible and one of them is adoption.
2006-07-27 04:23:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you, i wont abort the baby. if it is 4 weeks, that would be much easier, but 4 months? just carry on girl and u will be fine. Abortion brings too much emotional distress, beleive me, i had one years ago aborted when it was only 5 weeks old. but brought about lots of depression.
2006-07-27 04:12:14 · answer #6 · answered by The Punisher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are diffinatly not willing to continue pregnency you have to go to the hospital for indusing abortion.they will give you the oral /vaginal tablet to induse abortion. but you have to stay in the hospital for two days under specialists care to avoid severe complications like profuse bleeding. if you take the tablet and stay in the home there is chances of incomplete abortion which is fatal. dont worry go to the hospital and be happy.
2006-07-27 05:03:49 · answer #7 · answered by doll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not against abortion - but personally I would say don't do it, you're too far along. You should have thought about it sooner. If you really don't want to raise a child then put him/her up for adoption. There are many of us out here that are unable or have trouble conceiving. If you're unable to care for a child then give one of us the opportunity that we are unable to give ourselves.
2006-07-27 04:17:47 · answer #8 · answered by bscourson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that you should continue and if you really dont want to be a parent give the baby up for adoption, there are many people in the world that want to be parents but cant. good luck, whatver your situation is, get support from someone counsellor or something if the pregnancy is going to be really hard for you.
good luck
2006-07-27 09:22:11 · answer #9 · answered by Nemo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its WAY too late. The baby is to developed and you risk killing yourself aborting this late. Start looking up adoption agencies hun.
sorry.
2006-07-27 04:12:16 · answer #10 · answered by Juniper C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋