I hate like 75% of all the people I know, and im not a "hater" but they are all fake. They tell you what you want to hear then **** you over and stab you in the back. Or they use all of your friends because im the only one not stupid enough to be used. But for the most part they are all just insincere and self-centered. They could all use a kick to the face. Is it normal for so many people to suck so much or is it partly because of the shitty town i live in?
2006-07-26 21:07:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Dont tell me im hanging out with the wrong group douche bag. I know a lot of people of different ages and it doesnt help the fact that i hate them. I hang with the best group there is but i still hate most of them. If i hung out wih i different group it would have to be either preps i HATE them i hope they all go to hell, and or hicks who i hate even more. I just want to know if you guys think most the people you know are actually just dumbasses who you put up with so you dont have to hangout with the same 5 people your whole life.
2006-07-26 21:21:05 · update #1
Dont worry i dont exactly choose to hangout with them much. I let them know i dont like them but they still hang around me mostly cuz my real friends are too nice to them.
2006-07-26 21:22:59 · update #2
Hey RG dont be a stupid c-u-n-t now i hate you too. I dont hate myself sub-consioucsly however you spell it. I am well aware the i hate myself. But most peopl hate themselves. However i AM NOT fake.
2006-07-26 21:25:52 · update #3
This is understandable because people are not good. However, if you focus on trying to find something you like in each person, you will feel better about yourself.
A few years back 3 co-workers drove right past me after a major car wreck that would have killed me if not for the airbags. I was out for 10 weeks with a broken left hand and surgery on my right wrist! Before going back to work, I realized, it would be that would be sick if I held the resentment. While none of them would ever be welcome in my home, I looked for the good in each, and found some common interests. Before transferring to another city, one of them even took me to lunch, and truly wanted the best for me!
For your own sake, try to love everybody. I am not a Christian, but believe that is what Jesus was teaching us to do. We cannot survive alone, and you will find some truly wonderful life long friends, and look past the others. It is a hard thing to do, and takes a lot of practice. Be well.
2006-07-26 21:16:24 · answer #1 · answered by Bear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Expand your base. Get out and away from these people whenever possible.
Depending of your own interests, try hanging out at coffee houses or the theater or art galleries. Anywhere that will introduce to a new type of people.
If you're old enough you could move out of this environment. I had to myself to experience a different world. I grew up in a small, close-minded town.
Hope this helps.
2006-07-26 21:15:49 · answer #2 · answered by Doc Watson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because you "EXPECT" everybody to treat people as you do. I'm sure your a fair, honest person, therefore, when these mean people show the first sign of a "mean rude, selfcentered back stabber", you immediatly hate them, I believe that you should not let this bitter your life, all new encounters should be given a chance to prove their friendship, Just don't expect them to be fair, and you won't be let down when they " are not fair" , and if they prove to be a true blue friend, you'll be taken by surpise.
2006-07-26 21:18:19 · answer #3 · answered by jamieparks1963 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This happend to me too. I got rid of the people I didn't like and only hung out with the people I did like. Then I found that I had time to meet more people, some of which I liked and some of which I didn't. I got rid of the ones I didn't like again. I realized I don't have time to deal with people who are not good people, or that I don't get along with. (maybe as casual aquaintances, but that's it)
My advice to you is get rid of them.
And yes, most people suck, it's just a fact of life.
2006-07-26 21:14:30 · answer #4 · answered by 006 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are living in the association of selfish people, wrong place. You are in YOUR ERRONEOUS ZONE. Still you want to live there! Come out of it, and lead a life of your choice with the people of your like mindset.
2006-07-26 21:19:46 · answer #5 · answered by gnphyd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you hate yourself, subconsciously. Focus on your strengths and interests, and find someone who shares these qualities. Enjoy doing things together with that person. Then try the same thing with other individuals.
2006-07-26 21:17:28 · answer #6 · answered by RG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try making friends or associations with people of different ages. This may help.
2006-07-26 21:13:32 · answer #7 · answered by diasporas 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its completely normal to hate almost everyone, I've been successful at hating for 22 yrs! Don't ever give up the fight!
2006-07-26 21:12:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only 75% of the people that you now are like that? Lucky you.
2006-07-26 21:12:54 · answer #9 · answered by diana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your not allone in this one....Sometimes I get bitter becouse of that...uuuu a kick in the face...that would make me feel better!
2006-07-26 21:12:46 · answer #10 · answered by Lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋