i want a kid should i ask my b/f
2006-07-26 20:44:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Yes, you should ask him. And he will tell you NO, and after that he will break up with you, because that's what you deserve.
2006-07-26 20:49:08 · answer #1 · answered by diana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should volunteer at a day care for a summer or a Sunday morning church care. In one of the toddler rooms. If you are ANYTHING like the volunteers I have worked with that are your age, you will sit in the corner and talk to another "helper" and not help at all. Change a few diapers while you are there helping out. If you want a kid you will have 3000+ of them before your baby is out of them and you will have to change most of them, if not all. I am married and my hubby won't touch diapers.
2006-07-27 04:02:27 · answer #2 · answered by Lib 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am pretty sure that a 14 year old boy does not want the responsibility of a second child. Don't ask him. It will just make you look stupid.
2006-07-27 03:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by Ifeelyourpain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because u want one is no reason to have one right now. i have 3 and its hard to do anything. plus this baby needs food, clothes, money for school and all. at 14 i cant see anyone having a good job to pay for it all. grow up.
2006-07-27 03:49:51 · answer #4 · answered by kimmy209 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont need a kid. if you want one, then just babysit his. he will ba happy and so will your family cuz everyoe knows your not ready. of course babies are cute, toddlers are fun, and teenagers are great, but if you have a child this young then it has such a high chance of being born with defects of and/or a serious illness. of course normal kids are great, but do you really think you could handle a disabled one?
2006-07-27 03:50:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go to bed. And stop thinking about having children that i'm sure on you're own you wouldn't know the first detail of taking care of. Go to bed or have a lollipop or something.
2006-07-27 03:49:02 · answer #6 · answered by KingstonGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it girl, my sis is 14 and preggo age dont matter juss take care of ya self, get on prenatal vitamins u can get them at walmart 5 bucks get an ovulation kit at walmart 12 bucks and have sex every other day around ur ovulation time priceless
2006-07-27 03:50:24 · answer #7 · answered by Booty-Queen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF??? Why do you want a kid for at that age? And why the heck does he have a kid already? This is sickening. You need to focus on your education and not be worrying about having a child right now.
2006-07-27 07:55:10 · answer #8 · answered by guineasomelove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!!!! WHAT THE F!!K ARE YOU THINKING. YOU HAVE YOUR WHOLE LIFE AHEAD OF YOU. THINK OF THE THINGS YOU CAN ACCOMPLISH. STUDY. GET AN EDUCATION. WHEN YOU ARE SITTING ON SOME HOT TROPICAL BEACH, WITH NO CHILDREN, AND HOT GUYS ARE WANTING TO BUY YOU DRINKS, OR WHATEVER, YOU WILL THINK BACK AND SAY " OH MY GOD, I AM SO GRATEFUL I DIDN'T WASTE MY LIFE ON BEING SOME *** CATCHER FOR SOME GUY I WILL NOT EVEN BE IN CONTACT WITH IN 6 MONTHS"
2006-07-27 03:57:27 · answer #9 · answered by Jeanete J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have a baby... it's not something you can play with. You need to earn a degree and start a life. You'll be an unfit parent if you'll have it now.
2006-07-27 04:07:59 · answer #10 · answered by Jinky Winky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋