this is very serious question help me plz?
my cusin's son is 16 years old child. he is just like my son i am 25 years old he is as my child?
and i treat him like a kid.
yesterday he came to our house and i hold his hand and say how are you my son?
and my that reaction enhance his feelings. i really dont know but then he put his hand on my chest.
this is very surprizing behaviour. then i realize that its not his fault his age is 16 then i saw he becamr very restless.
now i am very sad because he is like my son.
he continously touches my breasts
i decided to stay far with him
2006-07-26 20:21:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
i cant realiuze that what it will happen that it enhaces its feelings. i think its veru wrong for him
2006-07-26 22:32:41 · update #1
Tell him that it is not appropriate and that you don't give him permission to touch your breasts. At 16 years of age, it's hard to imagine that he doesn't know what he's doing.
God Bless You, ;-)
2006-07-26 20:46:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THINK SERIOUSLY ABOUT THIS.
IF AT THIS STAGE HE IS TOUCHING UR BODY (BREASTS) THINK WHAT HE WILL DO IN FUTURE.
THAT IS NOT HIS MISTAKE OR UR MISTAKE.
BUT IT IS THE AGE FACTOR HE IS 16 & UR 25 NOT EVEN A SINGLE BOY AT THIS AGE WOULD EXPECT A 25 YEAR OLD GIRL/WOMEN TO BE HIS MOTHER, AS IT IS MEARLY IMPOSSIBLE.
SO MY SUGGESTION TO U IS THAT U 1ST TAKE HIM TO SOME LONELY PLACE LIKE PARK WHERE NON OF UR FAMILY MEMBERS R PRESENT & THERE U EXPLAIN HIM ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIPS & TELL HIM THAT IT IS NOT POSSIBLE FOR US TO INTERCLOSE & HAVE SEX.
IF THEN ALSO HE DOES'NT REALIZE THE RELATION THEN ITS UPTO U WHETHER U ALLOW HIM OR NOT.
BUT IN MY OPINION U MUST ALLOW HIM COZ HE CAN DO ANYTHING AS THIS IS THE DANGEROUS AGE (TEENAGE) & THEN AFTER U MIGHT FACE PROBLEMS.
WISHING U GOOD LUCK
BYE
2006-07-26 21:27:45 · answer #2 · answered by mohammad u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears to me it is your fault.a 16 year old boy can not be your son and Specially when you are only at 25 years old.I would therefore suggest you that remove all such feeling from your mind.Treat him as a matured Man and keep distance from him.Emotional attachments are sometimes as dangerous as yours and always keep it in mind that anything can happen to any one as a result of our own behaviors ,both wise or foolish.Take care dear.
2006-07-26 21:00:27 · answer #3 · answered by shri 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may b u loves him like ur own son, just like a mother. i think u should not give him allow to touch ur body. i think its not ur fault bcoz u loved her like ur own son but he did not give u a good response.he has become mature now. may b it could b the fault of both of u. "BURN THE CANDLE WITH BOTH ENDS"
2006-07-26 20:37:28 · answer #4 · answered by Usman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ermmm i will talk to him about touching you like that and tell him not to do it even if he may know better make sure!
2006-07-26 20:26:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell and teach him about sex and relationships.
2006-07-26 20:28:04 · answer #6 · answered by HarRY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋