do even the happiest of married men lose self control and cheat on their wifes?
2006-07-26 20:18:58 · 11 answers · asked by debbie s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As long as both individuals needs are being met in a relationship, the man will not cheat, and it is not hard for him to be faithful.
2006-07-26 20:25:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a woman, and I do believe that men view sex in a different way as women,. First let me say that I think that some women have to use self control just as a man does. Men are visual therefore they probably have a sexual thought about every 15 seconds!! Therefore, I would say that it is very hard for a man to maintain when temptation is present.
2006-07-27 03:58:30 · answer #2 · answered by jamieparks1963 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband said he totally adores me and I'm great the one etc...than he cheated on me. If your a hot guy women will throw themselves at you and I guess it takes a lot of control not to wander. But on the other hand I have been hit up by nice guys also some I thought were all that and I didn't stray....so maybe it's your make up or your self control but I don't get it.
2006-07-27 03:56:11 · answer #3 · answered by lol_des 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't call that 'happiest' - I'd call it desperate and unhappy - but I'm a happily married man now. back when i wasn't so 'happily married' - i cheated a few times! Plus, I've since learned through relationship books how to be faithful and true to my lovely spouse. wish I'd known this years before! I'd say that ignorance and discontent send men off to cheat and that ignorance is in both partners - not just one. when you've learned what a good relationship is and how to make it good, cheating becomes IMPOSSIBLE.
2006-07-27 03:43:40 · answer #4 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you make those vows they are made in the eyes of God. Those are things you should not make in vain they should come from your heart if you think that you may have a cheating you maybe should choose another partner for to lust you have also commit a sin
2006-07-27 03:52:18 · answer #5 · answered by kneekey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a hard thing to step in to reality and find out that your not the only one. But, I did fall in love and at age 39. Then found myself not wanting or thinking of anyone else, nor tempted. And unfortunately, after about three years , I got tired of getting answers that didnt make sense and some were impossible to belive. Nope, we didnt make it, and I still hate it.
2006-07-27 03:31:09 · answer #6 · answered by wonderingallthetime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is very hard. even if the other woman is dog ugly but I am probably the worst person to ask this question.
2006-07-27 03:48:51 · answer #7 · answered by teddybar67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its about control. some guys dont cheat. some guys do. its about the individual really.
2006-07-27 03:37:23 · answer #8 · answered by Niki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-07-27 03:36:05 · answer #9 · answered by sidekick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think some do and some don't women do the same thing
2006-07-27 03:51:17 · answer #10 · answered by Crystal D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋