I don't enjoy sex with my hubby, don't feel like , i'm married for 2 yrs and even have a baby now but don't really feel attracted coz everytime we do i get thoughts of his doing the same way with his GF he had for 4 yrs who was much younger to me and more beautiful to be honest, so i get strange complexes and don't enjoy the game. I feel this relation is useless. What to do but i want him around for my baby .coz he is her father
2006-07-26 20:16:56 · 12 answers · asked by aarzooji a 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
dont feel like that.
he loved you.
just concentrate on love, nothing else.
you are very beautiful too..
Face is not everything,
2006-07-26 20:25:27 · answer #1 · answered by $h@h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you love him? If you do that is no reason to break up with him. I think that you are being to hard on yourself. If you continue this negative mind set then you will push him away from you. You have to tell yourself not to think of these things when you and he are together. Force yourself to plug back into to the moment or think of some else other then his X. We all come with past and X's it is apart of who we are and how we become the partners that we are. You don't have to like his past but it is not going any where, you either deal with and get over it or you end the relationship, But truly this is on you. Good luck and reach for love and love yourself more
2006-07-27 03:29:02 · answer #2 · answered by shiva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
past is past dearie...you are the one he chose to marry! just be glad that he wants to have sex with you & not other women. stop thinking about his ex, it doesn't matter how long they've been together or how they're sex life was...just let it go, he did, so should you. if you love him, you have to stop thinking negative thoughts & concentrate of giving him & yourself pleasure! breaking up isn't the answer...i find it rather a shallow reason! the question you have to ask yourself is, do you love him?! if you do, then why break up? the only thing you have to do is forget about the past. but if you don't love him anymore, then that's a different thing, maybe that's the reason why you don't enjoy having sex with him...& thought of divorcing him.
2006-07-27 04:01:56 · answer #3 · answered by kevkatz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wud need to get over that feeling or the next guy with you, you will be going thru the same.
The past is the past. Afterall, he is yours now, right? and not with his ex. Furthermore, you can;t change the past. Am sure you have been involved with another guy before you meet your husband. He isn;t complaining, is he?
If you really love him, you have to try harder to erase that thoughts.
2006-07-27 03:55:09 · answer #4 · answered by Jack T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex can be different with same person also in many ways so dont compare urself with his ex girlfriend. try some thing new see his good points, rather ur should see that he left his ex for u who is present, so stop comparing and enjoy yourself
2006-07-27 03:27:45 · answer #5 · answered by cc20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what u think did he ever say u that then y u feel so insecured pls don't breakup and try 2 make him happy
2006-07-27 03:37:33 · answer #6 · answered by indian beauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being neurotic.
You knew his past BEFORE you married him.
Newsflash!
It's time to grow up and appreciate what you have. So your not the prettiest flower in his garden...you ARE the only one he waters.
2006-07-27 03:25:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get counseling about your feelings seriously it's your issue he has done nothing wrong his past is just that do you have a past?
2006-07-27 04:04:49 · answer #8 · answered by lol_des 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you accept him and give him sex or leave him. If you don't give him sex, he will carry on cheating too. Both ways he will still cheat on you.
2006-07-27 03:29:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way he did it with her will be different then with you
2006-07-27 03:23:42 · answer #10 · answered by tamah 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋