How can i ask my friend to pay the money he barrow 3 months ago?

Question

hE BARROWED MONEY FROM ME AND EVERYTIME I ASK FOR THE PAYMENT HE SIMPLY ANSWER. MY WIFE DOESNT HAVE CHECK BOOK YET AND STILL WAITING THE CHECK BOOK COMING FROM THEIR BANK

Answer 1

Ah, have we learned a lesson here yet? You never loan money, unless you can afford to lose it. You probably will never see it. Don't loan money to anybody for any reason.

Answer 2

Getting check books from a bank should not take any longer then two weeks at the very most. He doesn't want to pay you back.

You should 1 never leaned money to friends 2 you should never leaned money that you will absolutely need back for your own expense's. I really learned that the hard way and I feel for you! Maybe instead of saying does your wife have the check (or what ever you say) get him mad say something like " your not going to pay me that money back are you?". Put it on him why should you feel bad because you were the better person and tried to help him out. The best of luck

Answer 3

Perhaps you should speak to them both at the same time.
Tell them you dont want a check you want cash and soon.
If the check is so long in coming it might bounce.
You will I hope have learnt friends and loans dont always make for good feelings between the parties

Answer 4

And he's telling you that for 3 months?Com'on man wake up.The quetion you must ask yourself it's not how to ask him for your money back but if this is the kind of friend you want...
Just tell him to go to the bank together and take the cash don't wait for checks...
Be smart not a victim...

Answer 5

tell him that at the time you were able to loan it too him, but now your financial situation has changed and you require the money by the end of the week. if he cant pay by then, tell him he must sell something to get you the money...either way you want it by weeks end. if then he dont come up with the money, break his legs or shatter his writ with a sledge hammer...then tell him hw now ows money plus 10% and you want it by end of NEXT week or you will break some more bones....people dont usually last more than second week before they pay in full.

Answer 6

If he cant pay it with check book, why not ask him for cash?

Tell him you need the money for something important, and it's not that urgent he can keep the money for a longer time...

Answer 7

well, seems that guy is poor or a diickhead but not a friend...
so kick his ***,get the money if u really need it,
but if the amount is not high and u dont need the money,,
keep distance from him and dont give him any money or help,(or maybe even a Hi!)

Answer 8

tell him tht ur having problems and tht u and ur wife really need the money. if he doesnt give it to u then u shouldnt have loaned him the money in the first place

Answer 9

Tell him you need it, and you lent it to him when he needed it now you need the favour returned but its your money and if keeps saying its the bank tell him to ring them, if he is your real mate he will be honest with you.

Answer 10

just tell him that u need some money and since he borrowed it u figured u would ask him!