i want a kid but im scared that it may get took cause i dont have money r im to youg could it be took from me
2006-07-26 20:05:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Okay, say, hypothetically, that you have a baby. So now what, is your mom going to raise it for you while you're at school? You can't drop out, you're only 13. You haven't even passed English yet. Or do your parents have lives and you'd need to pay for a sitter? How would you pay for it? Are you gonna get a job? Where? You're only 13. Then you'd see the kid even less. If you think your life is in a rut now, haivng a kid would stop it completely from going anywhere at all. Just because you're dissatisfied with your life, and who it's at 13?, and you happen to like kids doesn't mean you should HAVE one. Unless a family member is willing to adopt it and take on sole responsibility for its care and upbringing, you won't be able to convince the courts that you're a fit parent. And good luck convincing someone you know to take on the financial burden of YOUR irresponsible decisions.
2006-07-26 20:16:23 · answer #1 · answered by desiderio 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't have a Kid at 13 you are too young! You don't want to throw your life away at such a young age. And the person you want to have it with might not be the person you really want to have a child with. Anyways if you want to pregnant at 13 and want to keep it a secret from people you would have a hard time hiding your baby bump and kids at school will probably think you are stupid for having a kid at 13. The baby might get taken away from you but it depends on if your parents will help you raise the baby! Have you thought about who is going to take care of the baby while your at school? And what about it's dippers and all that stuff???????????????
2006-07-27 03:17:45 · answer #2 · answered by Christina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have the money to properly raise a child, you probaly shouldn't have one. Think of the kid. It should grow up in the best possible place and you wanting one now isn't reason enough to have one. If you find you have a lot of love to give, why not get a pet? You can always have a child later in life but once you get pregnant, thats it. Your life will change forever and not always in good ways. Just be a kid now and enjoy growing up. You deserve a great life and so does your future child
2006-07-27 03:10:53 · answer #3 · answered by Miss. Bliss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the mother and circumstances but seriously you need to get expert advice from a councillor. If your old enough to keep a baby, your mature enough to realise you need to speak to someone first. Ask a friendly teacher for who best to talk to or your doctor or a close adult friend and they will find you someone to talk with. These people will help you understand the needs of a baby and your self. They'll give you advice on pregnancy and looking after your baby.. If they see your taking this seriously, it will help them think you will be a good mother and less likely they will take your baby away. But I would wait untill your twenties anyway because you'll miss out on a lot of parties, pubs and growing up.
2006-07-27 03:07:44 · answer #4 · answered by brian h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U may think u want a kid though it is tough and u r only a kid yourself don't take the enjoyment out of your life. when your a kid your ment to go out and have fun but trust me having a kid would ruin ur life. It's really not what u should be thinking about.
2006-07-27 03:12:14 · answer #5 · answered by added_zealand_chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want a kid at 13!? Hopefully, you are not pregnant yet! I was pregnant at 15. I thought I was grown up enough, but HELL NO! I went through alot.
Yes ..if you can't support yourself, ( where is the dad in this question?) and you are proven to be unresponsible...the baby will be taken.
PLEASE........talk to a close adult about this!
2006-07-27 03:12:00 · answer #6 · answered by MOI 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want 2 have a kid at 13??? you still are a kid! you need to take advantage of being a kid because a child is around a lot longer than your childhood.
2006-07-27 03:10:24 · answer #7 · answered by chikadee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are an unfit mother they will take it. They may let you keep it if an adult agrees to have you live with them. They would be responsible for providing for the baby and you.
You shouldn't have a baby that young. You could die giving birth and never see your baby.
2006-07-27 03:12:01 · answer #8 · answered by catmoosebear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 13! Why is it so imprtant for you to have a baby this young? Is it because you need to feel needed and unconditional love...or do you just miss your dolly's?
Yes the baby can be taken away from you, depends on the circumstances. Mainly if your parents are willing to help you or not.
In my opinion though, babies shouldn't have babies. YOU NEED TO WAIT!!!
2006-07-27 03:26:16 · answer #9 · answered by lildarlinkristisue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cannot properly take care of a baby it may be taken from you...BTW it is taken and not took. Please pay attention in English class. If you cannot use proper grammer how do you expect to teach a baby to speak properly?
2006-07-27 03:09:49 · answer #10 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋