i want a kid so bad and always have but i dont no how to tell my b/f i want a kid i no im may b to young to have a kid but i dont give i mean i have nothing diffrent to do my life is going no wheres so should i have a kid r should i just wait
2006-07-26 20:04:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
This question makes me angry just reading it, i woke up my husband and read it to him, hes mad to.
You are 13 years old, where do expect to be? What do you expect to be happening in your life? OMG Your life has yet to begin and you want to have a baby...What do you think will happen when you do? Your life instead of beginning will end. You will now have to take are of a wee one 24/7, its a full time job dont you know. Just because you have nothing better to do, geez...If you do this you will regret it. I hope your not having sex, again your 13. Be a kid and enjoy this time, you can not go backward...Get your education and be able to take care of yourself before trying to take care of someone else, you dont want to screw up two lives, make that 3 will include BF.
2006-07-26 20:24:47 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Short answer: wait.
Long answer...
Well, you're only 13 and think about it. In five years you'll be 18, will want to go out with friends, have fun, blah blah... But, if you have a kid... You better forget about that. In 5 years that kid will be a handful.
I'm wondering why it's so important you have a kid. Why is that calling so strong? Don't forget that women can have kids until 40 years old and more. So, there's no rush. Enjoy your best years while you can.
Ultimately, the choice is yours.
2006-07-26 20:10:59 · answer #2 · answered by Just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your way to young and if you think your life is going no where then you would soon have even less time with a kid. You should not be worried about that kind of thing for the moment. Move forward with your life so when the time is right to have a child you have established yourself and your future because you may not have the time when your child arrives.
2006-07-26 20:09:56 · answer #3 · answered by wandererthelost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, 13 is too young to be having and raising a baby. You would be a kid trying to raise a kid. And you should not be having sex at 13. You should wait at least five or six years.
2006-07-26 20:21:08 · answer #4 · answered by bluejay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok... I agree with all these ppl... but... I want to bring up one more thing.. when you have a baby... ALL of your priorities WILL change... You know the school dance? You won't be able to go cause you have to take care of him. You know how you like to sleep at night? You may not be able to. You know how you want to talk on the phone or the puter to your friends? Guess what... you don't have time anymore. So look at that too .... when you have a baby.. trust me.. it IS worth it.. but you also give up your own life. Or should at least if you're a good parent.
2006-07-28 13:16:20 · answer #5 · answered by Ken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're already doubting that you're old enough for a baby. And as far as you're life not going anywhere, well you have to give it time. You're 13...so you're not really supposed to have much else going on besides school.
Don't know what your grades are like...but if they are good, and you have a baby, it will get really difficult to keep your grades up. And who knows? You might develop dreams of becoming a doctor or something like that one day. You want to keep your grades up, have time to get involved in volunteering or school activities all through jr./sr. high school. Then you can get into a great school, and with scholarships for high grades and extra activities.
2006-07-26 20:17:15 · answer #6 · answered by cassicad75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait honey, you might love your baby but you will be tied down for the next 18 years. do you want to go to high school and not be able to go to parties or hang with your friends cuz you have to stay home and take care of your child. And if you think youll be able to find babysitters all the time,while you go out and have fun with your friends. that would make you a bad mom neways. dumping your kid on a baby sitter insead of raising it yourself
2006-07-26 20:35:31 · answer #7 · answered by Amelia M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK don't have a kid you are a kid and besides do you want to get fat. I'm not saying nothing about fat people i am pretty big myself.
Just wait it will not be fun to change diapers and drop out of school and you b/f might not want one and he may leave if you tell him that or try to have one.
2006-07-26 20:13:16 · answer #8 · answered by Kathy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now Hear This!! at 13 you are still a baby yourself! You need to wait at least 10 more years before you start thinking about babies. Children should not have children. You owe it to your self to live a little before you tie yourself down (or is your momma going to be raising this baby?) You owe it to the baby to wait at least until you learn how to spell
2006-07-26 20:10:03 · answer #9 · answered by der_grosse_e 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cannot stress this enough ...you are WAY too young to even be thinking about having a baby.You have many many years ahead of you to discover what it is you want to do with your life.You have schooling,career,dozens of relationships ahead of you before you should be contemplating having a child.You are still just a child yourself.Concentrate your efforts over the next few years on your schooling and building friendships with others.Good luck to you
2006-07-26 20:11:30 · answer #10 · answered by panda64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋