I got done busting my nut in this broad and then I got dressed and went to go meet my boys at the bar and she started whining and saying she wanted to cuddle and talk. WTF!?!?!?!
2006-07-26 19:57:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Being left after sex like that makes them feel like they were used, especially if you didn't satisfy her. Just a guess though.
I always felt that laying there for 15 or 30 minutes afterwords isn't such a big sacrifice especially if it avoids a fight and hard feelings. I dont mind the cuddling myself, but I usually have sex with women I respect and like.
2006-07-26 20:03:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Women see sex and an emotional experience and men see it as a physical experience. Women bond with a man when they have sex so they naturally want to cuddle and talk afterwords. Men simply get the physical needs taken care of and are ready to head out the door.
2006-07-26 20:36:17 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the cuddling and talking after sex gives it more meaning or importance than just the sex. Maybe the "broad" wants more from you than just sex. Pick a more compatible partner next time.......Someone who will walk away like you did with no strings attached.......no demands or expectations.
2006-07-26 20:08:56 · answer #3 · answered by meemoe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are an ***. i think you are asking this question as a joke, but i will give you a real answer hoping you might be serious or that you will grow up.
sex is an act of coupling. there's some physical pleasure and some emotion, but it's two people being together in a way only two people can. that means more than sex and a quick goodbye. it means time being a couple.
if you have a problem with that then keep it in your pants or stick to girls with the same attitude you have. they exist.
2006-07-26 20:07:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off @$$hole, sex may be cheap to you but it is not to us ladies. We want to continue the closeness that sex brings, sex isn't done just because you are. Do you please many ladies? Most of the time we are on a high from sex and we want to be close to hear the things that all men should say after.
1That it was the best
2 we are beautiful
3 that you love and respect us mind body and soul
and then there is more sex to come......but you obviously don't know that
maybe you should ask yourself why you do want to stick around and cuddle, maybe your afraid to hear her many complaints
2006-07-26 20:39:15 · answer #5 · answered by shiva 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nearly all females emotionally, bond with their mates through physical touch. That is not a concious or deliberate action. It is instinctual in nearly all females (although some will deny it-to their own hurt). Orgasm in the female involves physical AND emotional release. Emotional release during sex is INCOMPLETE for the female unless there is INTIMACY AND COMMUNICATION. For the male, sex is almost totally physical. You were ready to meet your boys at the bar to communicate. She had her mind on the object of her satisfaction-- YOU! That is all the male requires during sex, but the female needs intimacy for complete fulfillment.
2006-07-26 20:12:57 · answer #6 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because that is an extension of love and affection. if you don't want to lovingly stay with her for a while, I'd guess that you do not love her at all but just wanted to use her -instead of masturbating to 'bust your nut'. maybe some day you will want to linger in love and i hope the other person just gets up and leaves you after they've had their fill of your body.
2006-07-26 20:49:13 · answer #7 · answered by jimrich 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know i feel connected with the person i made love with if he stay and cuddles and talk to me. it saying that u love her not using her for sex.
2006-07-26 20:07:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most women believe that the person on top of her during sex is going to be at her side afterward. she just wants someone you aren't-a considerate lover.
2006-07-26 20:33:45 · answer #9 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know, you're a guy...even if we, gals, tell you, you never understand anyway. my husband usually sleeps after we have sex...which sort of burns me up! we gals, wanted to talk & cuddle after sex because we want to feel appreciated, we want to feel loved. if you just had sex then go out to meet your buddies, we would feel as though we were just used...will it kill you to stay for like 30mins & just talk?!
2006-07-26 20:16:30 · answer #10 · answered by kevkatz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋