want out my marriage don't wanna go through this anymore
2006-07-26 19:53:24 · 9 answers · asked by marilyn s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Then dont. Getting divorced is pretty easy this day and age. Goto a lawyer and they will serve him with divorce papers and they will let you know what you are entitled too and what your responsibilities are. Hope there are no kids involved because that tends to complicate things not to mention is hard on them..but so is an unhappy family situation.
Good Luck
2006-07-26 19:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First a question back to you. Has there been any verbal or physical abuse. If there has RUN as fast as you can. Don't tell him you want out, just go now. Not tomorrow or the next day. This is espically important if you have any children.
If there is no abuse and you are just bored or don't think you love him anymore sit down and talk. Make a date, go away together for the weekend. No phones,no cells,no pagers or any other way for the world to contact you. The two of you need to talk about what each of you think is wrong about your marriage/relationship. Set rules at the beginning about how the dicussion will be handled.
1. No blaming the other person for your feelings.
2. No yelling or cursing.
3. Both stay until you both agree to leave.
4. Be honest. This is the most important rule.
Those are the basics. I'm sure you can think of others. If the two of you work things out set one more rule, Neither partner leaves or goes to sleep until the disagreement is over. This includes going to work/
I know this is not what you wanted to hear, but take my advice. I have been married for 27 years and even though we have had some rough patches, we have always gotten through them, using the above method.
One more thing if after you try everything else you still feel as if you want out, then you should go ahead.
2006-07-27 03:14:13 · answer #2 · answered by shaiadfr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for what you are going through. These are truly tough times. The hardest thing in divorce is making the first step. Usually that step is around relocation. You either leave the house and ask your hubby to leave the house. things will roll from there.
Having said that, it is very important to talk calmly to your hubby and tell him this is what's going to happen if he does not change. Because once either of you is out of the house, there is a very good chance it will be permanent.
Hope things work out for you
2006-07-27 03:20:57 · answer #3 · answered by hotdesersand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So? Why are you still there? He knows the problems as well as you do. If both of you don't work together on the marriage it will fail. You sound like you don't want to try any more, so pack up and leave. Don't whine about how hard it will be. Lots of us have been there and gotten through it. Make up your mind and get moving!
2006-07-27 03:30:10 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you have already made your decision. Which I am sure was very difficult. In not knowing the circumstances I can only be empathetic to what in the marriage made you choose this path. As leaving would be a last resort. I applaud you for that courage. If you have kids involved, for their sake make it an amicable separation.
2006-07-27 03:18:05 · answer #5 · answered by Gilligan W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for starters, STOP telling him and PACK your bags. Resolved!
2006-07-27 08:39:29 · answer #6 · answered by Babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here's my question. what the hell's stopping you?
2006-07-27 02:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by tim e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're an adult - GET OUT, GET FREE, GET SOME GUTS AND FIND LOVE.
2006-07-27 04:00:47 · answer #8 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We need more details dipshit.
2006-07-27 02:57:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋