this person and i use to be so close we were like sisters and then we fell back into the drug scene and last december when my husband got his first disability check payment she stole 500 dollars from us and tried to get another one of my and my hubbys friends to rob us because she knew he had gotten this large check my friend stayed away from the house after she told him to rob us and later told us what had happened well i saw her in an aa meeting tonight i have been sober 6 monthes and i am not to sure how long she has but she is active in the aa program no sponsor and been around for awhile i told her to get a sponsor and she told me she doesnt want one so i let it go but do i start to trust her and work on the friendship or should i stay far away from her i am very confused and upset about this and really like help thank you please no smart a__ comments i am upset enough
2006-07-26 19:27:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need to stay far, FAR away from this person. When she is refusing a sponser...she's NOT working the program...she's only working the system...and she's not serious about recovery.......badddddd news... From now on...keep all financial information to yourself. Change your locks, windows, too, lock up all business papers, etc. ....and watch yourself. Move if you need to...probably wouldn't be a bad idea, when you need to get away from former drinking friends.
2006-07-26 19:39:09 · answer #1 · answered by madamspinner2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a hard one. I know you probably really still care for this person and maybe the only reason she robbed you was because of the drugs, but i don't think i would have anything to do with her unless she was clean and working her program in the right way.
2006-07-26 19:37:31 · answer #2 · answered by gee-geeofmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no... DO NOT TRUST HER!! Im sorry but she stole money from you??? are you serious?? If you trust her and let her back into your life you're just going to get hurt! She's going to use you and take advantage of you like crazy! i'm serious. I would stay the hell away from her. Since you 2 were both into drugs and alchohol it's probably best that you go seperate ways. What if you start hanging out again and you get back into drugs and alchohol??? it's not healthy for you! Seriously tho, STAY AWAY FROM HER!!
2006-07-26 19:58:51 · answer #3 · answered by keep it real 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does your sponsor say?
i'd get some self esteem training and the solution will be clear. check out Codependents Anonymous for answers to your 'friend' problems?
2006-07-26 20:36:35 · answer #4 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...you really have a big prob..for me...it is not good if you just run..talk to her and give her an advice...aneweiz..you became friends...if she didn't listen to your advice...then she has the problem and it is not your fault...coz u did your part as a friend...
2006-07-26 19:53:10 · answer #5 · answered by pinkraven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋