2006-07-26 19:01:50 · 26 answers · asked by Gevinski G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hi....
And well i think tht u r going on wid ur good frnd's Ex!!!
So nthn bad in it.....as long as ur frnd feels comfortable wid u and his ex.. i mean to say tht u must keep on the balance wid ur frnd and ur gf(his ex). It surely wud take some time for all 3 of u to come out of this but gradually everything wud get back to normal....and even u hv gotta keep ur eyes and ears open...Do check the point of view of the girl too as if she's doing this to envy sumbdy else!!!!
Adios- Sur
2006-07-26 19:06:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends how serious they were together and how good friends you two are. Most people would say it's wrong but I've always believed that if you truly should be with that person, then having known them because they're your friend's ex shouldn't stand in the way. Duhh, they're not with your friend so why should you be cancelled out just by association? If you think your friend wouldn't understand or you value your friendship too much to test it like that, then don't do it. And you definitely shouldn't do it if they just broke up, which means at least a month should pass before you hook up.
2006-07-27 02:07:34 · answer #2 · answered by Kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are real friends you should all really have made the boundries between the both of you . Before you even get in that realm. Yet the old girl may be the one for you and the same may go for the other person you would always want to walk a mile in the others shoes for you may not want that done to you Boundries is the ticket
2006-07-27 02:26:12 · answer #3 · answered by kneekey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong to go out with your friend's ex-girlfriend, unless the break up of your friend and his ex was very bitter and upsetting to your friend. In that case, you should wait until all emotional turmoil that was stirred up by the break-up to subside before you get involved with this girl. Make sure that the relationship between the girl and your friend is really and truly over before you step in.
2006-07-27 02:07:22 · answer #4 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't think it is a good idea. A friend of mine wanted to set me up with her ex husband. Obviously he is her ex for a reason.... so i don't understand why she would set me up with him.
Also if there was anything I didn't like about him, she might somehow take it personal.
I don't feel like it is a good thing to do if your wanting to keep a good friendship.
2006-07-27 02:05:24 · answer #5 · answered by Cara B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-07-27 02:04:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is a Big Big No No. If you want to keep your Friend. If it is OK with your Friend OK, but remember can you take it if it is turned around???? If you see them together, hugged up and kissing...can you take that? Think about it and do what you feel is best.
2006-07-27 02:27:53 · answer #7 · answered by Pooh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not wrong to go with your friends xgfbut if your friend is still carrying the torch for her then just tell him so it wont come as a shock for him.
2006-07-27 02:04:54 · answer #8 · answered by aishus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. First, they probably slept together, yuck, wouldn't that be like sleeping with your friend? and secondly, what if you and her got really serious, like marriage, wouldn't it feel funny to know that your friend screwed your wife???? There is more fish in the sea, don't do sloppy seconds.
2006-07-27 02:06:32 · answer #9 · answered by simplyfabulous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, Bacause they're not toghether any longer. Ask him first thought out of respect to your friendship. If he say's no, and you desperatly want to go out with her anyway, than do it at least you haven't done anything behind his back.
2006-07-27 02:12:30 · answer #10 · answered by Tellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋