ever night we have to have sex.... but i'm tired most nights but i do it...because i love him... what should i do????
2006-07-26 19:00:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
It's not like it has to be all that hard on your part. Obviously, he does it for himself and therefore you could just lay there and provide a moist hole. I mean, god...
2006-07-26 19:07:38 · answer #1 · answered by Tarantism 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh-huh. Pre-marital sex. I don't know how old you are, but I find that pre-marital sex is unacceptable regardless of age. Unless both you & your boyfriend are ready for a child, why risk it? Think of all the possible STDs & unwanted pregnancies. I know I have no business in minding your affairs, but I'm just saying what I feel. No offence though.
Anyway, if he really loves you, he should respect you & your body. He should not force you to do what you don't want to. If he really loves you, he will understand. I know it's really hard to dump him since you love him so much. But do you want him to treat you as his sperm toilet? Will you be happy this way? And since you are not married to him, he might use and dump you, then call you a whore behind your back. I'm not trying to scare you, but this is just a possibility.
Try talking to him. Let him know that you are tired & can't do it every night with him. If he doesn't accept that & even kicks up a fuss saying that you don't love him anymore etc, decide what's best for you. You have control over your own life. Good luck!!
2006-07-26 19:17:24 · answer #2 · answered by JiEyIn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with your first answerer. My ex bf was like that and i would break up with him for a few days just to get a break. I like sex, but ****, there are other things in life you have to get done instead of laying up in the bed all day having sex.
2006-07-26 19:05:51 · answer #3 · answered by chelojelo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you, shouldn't he also respect your feeling? And you have the right to say NO, no matter when, even if you want to stop during the sex intercourse --- and if he blames you on that, he is sexually abusing you.
I know it is easier to say than done, but try to open up your thoughts and feelings and talk to him, a serious relationship is based on honesty and trust.
2006-07-26 19:10:55 · answer #4 · answered by www.i-love-blythe.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you want is just as important as what he wants. Sounds like you need to reinforce that little fact(sarcasm)with him.Not to be uncouth but does he want you for you? Or does he just want a f**kbuddy? Granted us guys are simple, feed us ,screw us, and we're happy(I'm joking but it's partially true).
2006-07-26 19:09:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him we need 2 take a break ive been busy all day and i dont feel like having sex
2006-07-26 19:04:02 · answer #6 · answered by christyboo!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth, If he doesn't accept that you don't wnat sex every night, dump his ***.
2006-07-26 19:03:57 · answer #7 · answered by judy_r8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how old you are and how commited the two of you are and what other interests you two share.
2006-07-26 19:04:59 · answer #8 · answered by Gina N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you really care about your body and if you are a christian tell him that you don't want to have sex until you are married.
2006-07-26 19:12:44 · answer #9 · answered by Kiya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to back off coz you're tired! Ain't no man gonna push me for sex!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-26 19:43:52 · answer #10 · answered by simarvld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋