ever night we have to have sex.... but i'm tired most nights but i do it...because i love him... what should i do????
2006-07-26 18:59:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
The first thing you have to do is make sure your boyfriend CLEARLY gets:
a) What your position is on this. (It's amazing how the genders sometimes communicate so differently that often when one thinks has gotten her/his point across, the other one still remains clueless on the whole matter).
b) Your reasons for it. (On this one perhaps you might want to reflect on your own first... sometimes things like tiredness can be just the cover for something deeper that you might not be totally aware out of the top of your head).
If after that, he still doesn't seem to want to accept it or willing to understand (and to please!!) you, then perhaps you should review what is really the basis that holds that relation together. *Hint: Imagine how would it be if you two were not to have sex for let's say... a month. What would happen? would anything change?
A relationshop whose bond is based on sex is as strong as a house that doesn't fall apart because the paint holds it together.
2006-07-26 19:40:42 · answer #1 · answered by Hor-heh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. I am a Nympho and my fiance and I both love each other but he still tells me no when he is tired. Or you can try something like I wanna experiment. Wait till the weekend and I will give you such wonderful sex you will wonder why we didn't try this earlier. See if he's interested.
2006-07-26 19:03:46 · answer #2 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw him.
And that doesn't mean have sex with him lol.
You don't have to have sex with someone because you love them. You should have sex when you're in the mood and when he's in the mood AND because you love them. If one of you is in the mood and the other isn't up for it, then go to another room and spank the monkey lol.
If he's pressuring you and insisting on sex, tell him it pisses you off! and that you're really tired of it. or nicely suggest doing something else.
if he won't stop insisting tell him the truth, "if you love me, you won't pressure me".
if he tries to tell you "if you love me, you'll have sex with me."
leave. get out of the house. run.
only a complete ******** would say that.
2006-07-26 19:04:46 · answer #3 · answered by Fanny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand up for yourself and say no. How do you think he would feel if he knew the only reason you were having sex with him is because he wants to. Sex is supposed to be about mutual love and respect. I'm hearing love, but not seeing any respect...for him or for yourself.
2006-07-26 19:03:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex in the morning; best way to start off the day.
2006-07-26 19:03:01 · answer #5 · answered by sickcured? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hand him the baby oil and a towel. Then wake him up in the morning as a reward ;)
2006-07-26 19:02:46 · answer #6 · answered by Kristonia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you don't feel like it every night. If he can't respect your wishes then maybe he's not the right guy for you.
2006-07-26 19:02:48 · answer #7 · answered by laetusatheos 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should discuss this problem with him .if he has lasting commitments for your bond then it will be ok. but when you feel you not do the intercourse. even my boyfriend compels me to have sex.
2006-07-26 19:15:15 · answer #8 · answered by sheet ptweetiepei 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him in the family jewels.
2006-07-26 19:03:24 · answer #9 · answered by Bliss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,
1st. BE HAPPY he is digging you.
2nd. just tell him your tired...
3rd. BE HAPPY he is digging you.
2006-07-26 19:04:32 · answer #10 · answered by mitt w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋