My boyfriend and I got together in April. Since then, he'd always have a problem with my make up and hair. He even told me to my face he didn't like my make up or the shimmery silver eyeliner I was wearing. I wore my other favorite, dark purple, and he still wasn't satisfied. He also wanted me to wear my hair up and out of my face. So I did that.Then a few weeks later, I decided one day to take out my ponytail during the middle of the day to see how he would react. He didn't say much, but the day after that, I had it in a half ponytail and then he was all questioning me, asking me what I liked better, and he said "I always thoguht it was more beautiful without the ponytail." I don't know what he likes from me. And he would get mad when I would wear shimmey shadow with black mascara. I wore that stuff because I thought it brought out my brown eyes, but then he'd get mad at me for no reason all because of my make up. And he's only told me I looked nice a few times. Should we be together?
2006-07-26 18:53:33 · 19 answers · asked by +♪♫ rip my jeans.not my ♥ ♫♪+ 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Makeup
girl, you need to get out of that as soon as possible. its really hard to see it when youre in it but from an outside view everything is just WRONG. a guy should NEVER tell you how to make yourself look or what to wear or how to do your hair or makeup...if he doesnt like you for who you are then you can find someone much better, someone who will. never never never change for a guy, there are always better ones out there that will love you just the way you are.
2006-07-26 18:58:41 · answer #1 · answered by kimberbee 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you like him, then thy to make it work. Irf you attracted him with the way that you look now, then talk to him. Men just like women are fickle. If he is this nerd type, then try softening the shades. Instead of mascara, get your eyelashes done. Try wearing your own hair or modifiying what you have. Give him a more sentual look sometimes. If he is a lot older and you are a lot younger, then he may be a bit of a control freak. He may be becoming jealous of the way you look around his friends. It could be an array of things. Talk to him first before you make a hasty decision.
2006-07-26 19:09:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Defenetly NOT! Leave your boyfriend straight away and tell him someone else for sure appriciates every single part of yourself and the way you look!
He is not worth thinking about yourself all the time. A relationship should be where both are happy and confortable which eachother and where both accept how they are. This doesn't seem to be the case in your relationship. So, in my opinion or if this had been my boy/girlfriend, I'd leave him still today.
Maybe you can also try talkin about it. Tell him that you don't feel confortable with his comments. Then, if he still hasn't changed, leave him.
Good luck...
2006-07-26 19:02:33 · answer #3 · answered by Hamas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear your makeup at least one inch thick and thick mascara and/or false eyelashes.Paint on eyebrows in thin line. Bright glittery eyeshadow and panda eyeliner. Heavy blusher like pikachu and bright red lipstick and LOTS of lipgloss.
Do your hair in Croydon Facelift^hair gelled tight to your head and pulled back so tight that your eyes are almost vertical.
Shave of ALL your body hair and eyebrows.
Lots of the most gorgeous perfume.
And a short skirt or chinese dress.
2006-07-27 19:51:37 · answer #4 · answered by eroru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's what suggest:
The next time you go to see him wear everything exactly how YOU like it. tell him how you feel about all of this, ask him if he would want you to tell him what he can and can't do with his friends or hat he wears, and if he can't accept you the way you are ,then he s not the one for you. it s a HARD thing to do, but that is , in my opinion, the BEST thing to do.
2006-07-26 19:17:57 · answer #5 · answered by iluvnj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell your boyfriend, in "I" terms that, "I am upset when you are critical about my makeup and hair." " I will not be able to please you all the time and you will have to accept me as I am." If he continues to be critical you can tell him that you may look somewhere else for a boyfriend that is more accepting. That might light a fire under his butt and get him to shutup. Good luck my dear!
2006-07-26 19:04:17 · answer #6 · answered by Happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds a little controling. You know not everything has to be his way, if you are happy with what you are doing then thats all that matters. Don't let him try and change you.
2006-07-26 19:01:44 · answer #7 · answered by deusdeluna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, just be yourself and wear your make up and your hair the way you like it. He needs to accept you for who you are and not for what you look like.
2006-07-26 19:07:10 · answer #8 · answered by Sunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he want to shape you up the way he wants it to be and totally ignore your individuality, then I don't see any future in your relationship with this guy.
2006-07-26 19:03:20 · answer #9 · answered by Timothy Summer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stop worrying about what your boyfriend likes. If he doesn't compliment you enough, then dump him. Then he'll realize what a mistake it was to take you for granted.
2006-07-26 18:57:24 · answer #10 · answered by Bliss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋