I've been having recurring dreams about my ex telling me that he LOVES me. The 1st one was about him telling me that he loves me in my face, but instead of being happy, I started crying. The 2nd one was about him writting in the wall in capital letters I "HEART" U, and I also started crying. The 3rd one was him writting in the wall again, but this time I didn't cry, and this time he used my name. He put: I "Heart" Thalia
I've been driving myself crazy trying to figure this recurring dream out, and yes,I still have feelings for him, but I'm trying to forget about him.
Plz help me out..........
2006-07-26 18:49:05 · 11 answers · asked by Lia 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I think you are missing him and are trying to justify in your mind resons to get back with him.... but at the same time your mind is in conflict with itself because you are trying to move on... i really dont know the situation.. but if it didnt work out and your mind is telling you to move on i think you should...
2006-07-26 18:53:51 · answer #1 · answered by Keith T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all takes time. you shouldn't avoid him or block him out of your life because in the end he will still be there and when you realize that (after blocking him out for a long time) you will feel super tired...mentally that is.
set goals and have daily rountines. when your mind is occupied with something else it would help you not think of him. learning to control your feelings towards someone is never easy but the thing to keep in mind is have an open mind and let things happen naturally. dont be too forceful in anything such as purposely not going somewhere beacuse he'll be there or gossiping about him with others. i dont really know the story between you two, if you were the one to breka it off or if he was but either way have an open mind.
spend time with your girl friends.
get to know other guys - but this doesn't mean you should get too involved (like starting another relationship). you need to find out more about yourself, what you want, look for and need and soon it will be all good.
hope this helps
2006-07-27 02:02:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me analyze your dreams
Basically, you have regret and guilt conscience in your dream.
#1 You feel guilty because he is your ex. You cannot control your emotion to be happy
#2 You feel worse because he said he loves you.
#3 You didn't cry because you found out it is not your fault.
Basically, you are in the midst of conflict feeling now. You want to admit and yet you regret. You projected first two dreams to blame yourself. And yet the last one, you tried to convince yourself it is not your fault. It is a dream of guilt conscience and responsibilities. You do not want to take the responsibilities of hurting people and yet you are hurting yourself. He may subconsciously went into your mind deeply regardless who's fault it is.
Advice: this is like unsolved issue. The only way to fix this dream is to go talk to him. And have this love thing clear. Don't assume he loves or he still loves you not. Maybe you just want a direct answer from him. If he says something to you face to face once again, your reoccurring dream will be gone.
2006-07-27 07:49:27 · answer #3 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well him telling u that he loves u in all tha dreams means that u deeply want him to still love u and u obviously have feelings for him. the 1st and 2nd time u cried it meant that u either thought it was to good to be true or that u didnt believe him. maybe u were crying because u were happy which wouldnt make sense because u said that u werent. and then on the 3rd time u didnt cry and he used ur name. this means that he could have feelings for u still and that u believed all of it this time. reacurring dreams often are preminitons of what may happen during the future or they are some unresolved thoughts in ur subcouncious mind.
2006-07-27 01:58:17 · answer #4 · answered by sara ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi well best i can tell it means your slowly getting over him the reason you didn't cry is u finally are ready to move on with your life yes the pain of a break up will always be their but you seem like a strong person so just remember to take [one day at a time ] thats how life works mr. right is out there u just have to wait till time is right he will find u ,u will see i dated a lot before i meet my hubby of 7 years so just keep your eyes open and let your heart heal .
2006-07-27 02:18:26 · answer #5 · answered by dianna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sub conscience is just trying to experience something that you once wanted and perhaps still want. I sometimes dream about old girlfriends and I've been happily married for many years. I just chuckle about the dream and then forget about them. Keep trying to forget him. Don't let silly dreams confuse your reality.
2006-07-27 01:57:00 · answer #6 · answered by Track Walker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have doubts deep down inside that he really loves you. or he will say it on a impersonal level. not look in your eyes and say it like he really means it. subconciously, you dream what you feel when your awake. the heart on the wall is his way of telling you he loves you, but he's shy in person at times to say it. you want to feel he REALLY loves you, and in the last segment of that dream, he's getting closer to showing it....
2006-07-27 02:19:46 · answer #7 · answered by savedin1970 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello dear, you are not going to forget him. And don't mind you are also not trying to forget him. He will remain in your feeling and will be more stronger day by day. i t will really give you a pleasure, happiness and peace of mind if you accept him openly.
2006-07-27 02:07:23 · answer #8 · answered by lovely 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you want him to come to you any say he still loves you.But it's just yours.maybe you should see him once again and fix your mind whether you want him or not.If you wanted you can do your best for having him again and if you didn't,every thing is finished//
2006-07-27 02:37:00 · answer #9 · answered by melin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess your dreams won out,no need to try and forget him anymore.I guess it was tru love.
2006-07-27 02:14:25 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋