Wat do u do, when a friend u knew sice 3rd grade, moves freshmen year. Now comes bak after a year in a half. Ok ur probely thinkin, then wats the problem u should be happy. Well its not like that, it was awful bein friends with her, well not at 1st. But as the years progress she became controlling, i was more of a follwer then a friend. And i couldent just not be her friend then i would have been a loner. All the ppl i tried to be friends with, she would hate them. i was always suppose to be pals with her friends it was awful. But when highschool started it changed i made friends of my own, and they r the best. now shes comin to visit for 3 weeks. And she already hates my friends and she dosent even know them!! Wat am i goin to do to survive these 3 weeks. And no she hasent changed, i talk to her almost evey day. I still luv her, she will always be one of my good friends. We did have good times before. But i dont want her ruining my friendship with others in a mater of days.
2006-07-26 18:43:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
u answered ur own ?. u don't want to be. are u aware of an old saying" w/friends like these who needs enemies"? be your self even if it means being aloner.u might be alone but u will feel better about ones self.
2006-07-26 18:49:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just keep your friendships seperate. When she comes to visit, jsut do things with her and keep in contact with your other friends but dont make them all mix. That could lead to fighting and a big disaster. She will only be there for a few weeks, then you can see your other friends and call or write to her from afar. just let your other friends know you are not ignoring them while she visits. Talk on the phone, e-mail, keep in touch with all of them
2006-07-26 18:47:25 · answer #2 · answered by bambi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good friend can love you when you are not love-able. A good friend is someone you can trust and a good friend is someone you can talk to about anything, anytime and anywhere. Let your friend know that you care about her and also let her know that you have new friends that are dear to you and even though she maybe be somewhat jealous those friends are there to stay. If she is a real friend she should and will understand. GOD bless you with your friendships.
2006-07-26 18:52:49 · answer #3 · answered by machelle6691 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to confront the friend that is causing all of the problems. If you ask me she is just jealous that you have found other friends to spend your time with.
If she is not willing to get along with your friends then I would really consider letting her go. By the sounds of it you have had more bad times than good. You need to decide who is more important her or your new friends.
Good Luck!
2006-07-26 19:08:37 · answer #4 · answered by Beccygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi friend ,she is going to be with you only for 3 weeks and when you wanna be loyal to her.........you know her and u can understand her feelings ,be friendly to her in her presence and be with your friends when she is not with u and try convincing your present friends about the scene in a polished way.thats the only way you can manage both of them together just like maintaining 2 girl friends........when you wanna meet your other friends tell her some story as if you are busy and move with them and try spending some time with her other than ur liesure time.........so she will be with you......as she also has other friends she will udjust......bye bye
2006-07-26 19:18:50 · answer #5 · answered by alok n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh man this is a tuff one. you have to finally learn how to stick up and tell her off! you have to tell her that now we have been friends for a long timeand i really enjoy being around you and stuff but i made new friends and you hate them. and the bad part is that you dont even know them. i am so ashmed of you. if you want to be my friend then you are going to have to learn to deal with my new freinds frist or we won't ever be friends again.
2006-07-26 18:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by Cassie210 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get ur friend that ur having a problem with and get together with ur highschool friend, get them to know eachother better, and explain to them how you feel, like you did to the yahoo answers ppl
2006-07-26 18:48:45 · answer #7 · answered by ! :] ♥ ! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her if ur gonna hang out with her she has to respedt that u have diff friends and u dont want her to ruin it tell her u still love her she jus cant ruin this for u
2006-07-26 18:46:47 · answer #8 · answered by ~*bunny*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is the name of ups and downs while you have friendship problem, huh neutralise your behavior you will see the result ok
2006-07-26 19:13:08 · answer #9 · answered by khial_555 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably just wants u all to herself. lol..talk to her and tell her how u feel. if she's still like that....stop the friendship..it's hard but it's for the best.
2006-07-26 18:46:54 · answer #10 · answered by Carmen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋