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2006-07-26 18:27:52 · 11 answers · asked by ben_ben125 1 in Health Men's Health

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Premature Ejaculation
Therapists have decided to refer to premature ejaculation as "ejaculatory incompetence". Given my druthers, I think premature ejaculation (PE) sounds better. Who wants to be incompetent? Kids call it "shooting too fast". Trust kids to call it as they sees it.

"My boyfriend cums after two strokes" is not an uncommon comment. Young males become so sexually aroused so quickly, touch their hand and they have an erection. This is very flattering for his partner, but not very satisfying for a sexual relationship

What can a young guy do? Well there are a few very simple things that will help:

First, he can masturbate before he goes out with his partner. This will reduce the expectation that he must be a great lover with an ever-ready penis. Then he will be able to last longer.

Understanding male sexual responses helps. If a guy ejaculates quickly, he is going to lose his erection, and this "refractory phase" will last about 20 minutes in a young male. There is absolutely nothing either of them can do to trigger another erection. But, let's make use of that time. He can spend that 20 minutes stimulating her, whispering sweet nothings, kissing, snuggling, cuddling, hugging, petting, stimulating breasts and genitals orally. 20 minutes of that stimulation and she will be very sexually aroused and he'll have another erection, and "ain't nobody gonna stop him now".

Another obvious option for young males is to use thick condoms. This dulls the sensitivity of the penis, helping him to last longer.

As a male ages, his refractory phase is longer. Learning the "squeeze technique" will help to delay ejaculation.

Many males learn to control ejaculation by practicing "KEGEL EXERCISES" on a regular basis. Kegels may be found on this web site.

There are creams and sprays available at sex stores. These are supposed to numb his penis, so he will be less aroused and eager to ejaculate. Many men swear by these creams. I do have a concern. These creams usually contain Lidocane, a topical anaesthetic. Fine and good, but if he uses it then puts a condom on, there is concern that it will weaken the condom. If he does not use a condom, some of this cream will rub off his penis during intercourse, and may numb her vagina. Again, do talk to your partner to check for reactions.

Women often feel that they should be able to do something to "help" him. Basically, this is his problem, and he needs to solve it himself. You can talk to him about it and lessen the expectation that he must sexually satisfy you every time. You can satisfy yourself, or you can teach him how to stimulate and satisfy you in ways other than penis in vagina intercourse. This reduces the pressure on him, helps him relax, and he has some sense of control.

2006-07-26 18:30:33 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer B 5 · 0 0

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2016-03-31 23:19:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

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2017-01-28 15:33:40 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Premature ejaculation means when a dude ejaculated uncontrollably before he wants to. Usually means you can't control your penis dude.

Get a hold of your penis (no pun intended)!

2006-07-26 18:33:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I really hope that this is a serious question and you are not just sick, but here you are curtesy of the Yahoo Health Encyclopedia.
Premature ejaculation is uncontrolled ejaculation either before or shortly after sexual penetration, with minimal sexual stimulation and before the person wishes. It may result in an unsatisfactory sexual experience for both partners. This can increase the anxiety that may contribute to the problem. Premature ejaculation is one of the most common forms of male sexual dysfunction and has probably affected every man at some point in his life. 1, 2

What causes premature ejaculation?

Most cases of premature ejaculation do not have a clear cause. With sexual experience and age, men often learn to delay orgasm. Premature ejaculation may occur with a new partner, only in certain sexual situations, or if it has been a long time since the last ejaculation. Psychological factors such as anxiety, guilt, or depression can cause premature ejaculation. Since alcohol can delay orgasm, stopping the regular use of alcohol before sex may also play a role in this problem. In some cases, premature ejaculation may be related to an underlying medical cause such as hormonal problems, injury, or a side effect of certain medications.

What are the symptoms?

The main symptom of premature ejaculation is an uncontrolled ejaculation either before or shortly after intercourse begins. Ejaculation occurs before the person wishes it, with minimal sexual stimulation.

How is it diagnosed?

Your health professional will discuss your medical and sexual history with you and conduct a thorough physical examination. Your doctor may want to talk to your partner as well. Because premature ejaculation can have many causes, your health professional may order laboratory tests to rule out any underlying medical problem.

How is it treated?

In many cases, premature ejaculation resolves on its own over time without the need for medical treatment. Practicing relaxation techniques or using distraction methods may help you delay ejaculation. For some men, stopping or cutting down on the use of alcohol, tobacco, or illegal drugs may improve their ability to control ejaculation.

Your health professional may recommend that you and your partner practice specific techniques to help delay ejaculation. These techniques may involve identifying and controlling the sensations that lead up to ejaculation and communicating to slow or stop stimulation. Other options include using a condom to reduce sensation to the penis or trying a different position (such as lying on your back) during intercourse. Counseling or behavioral therapy may help reduce anxiety related to premature ejaculation.

Medications called selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor medications (SSRIs), such as fluoxetine (Prozac), paroxetine (Paxil), and sertraline (Zoloft), are sometimes used to treat premature ejaculation. These medications are used because a side effect of SSRIs is inhibited orgasm, which helps delay ejaculation. The use of SSRIs for the treatment of premature ejaculation is not related to depression and is considered an "off-label" use.

FDA Advisory. The US Food and Drug Administration (FDA) has issued an advisory to patients, families, and health care providers to closely monitor adults and children taking antidepressants for signs of suicide. This is especially important at the beginning of treatment or when doses are changed.

The FDA also advises that patients be observed for increases in anxiety, panic attacks, agitation, irritability, insomnia, impulsivity, hostility, and mania. It is most important to watch for these behaviors in children who may be less able to control their impulsivity as much as adults and therefore may be at greater risk for suicidal impulses. The FDA has not recommended that people stop using antidepressants, but simply to monitor those taking the medications and, if concerns arise, to contact a health professional.

2006-07-26 18:33:02 · answer #5 · answered by Kat 2 · 0 0

It means he cums too quick. He should try desensitizing himself. It usually goes away with practice and maturity.

2006-07-26 18:39:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

so before a guy cums he pre ejaculate because it cleans what ever is in there so it does not burn or hurt you

2006-07-26 18:31:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

when you ejaculate before the usual time for ejaculation

2006-07-26 18:35:05 · answer #8 · answered by Answerer 4 · 0 0

Its ejaculation with very little if any contact. i.e. Tug tug squirt

2006-07-26 18:31:06 · answer #9 · answered by Gynolotrimena Lubriderma-Smith 3 · 0 0

Means you kill the dream!

2006-07-26 18:30:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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