when me and my husband first met we had sex all the time, but now I dont even care about it. He bugs me all the time about it and talks about how we used to do it all the time. Can anyone help me. I dont know what it is.I had back surgery about a year ago and I tell him it hurts sometime and Im over weight and it is hard for me to do it with out being out of breath. He thinks it him or that I dont love him. Help me please
2006-07-26 18:26:31 · 5 answers · asked by klfhdf 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I had a steal rods put in my lower back, because it was broke. Yes i do have diabetes and hypertension and Im thirty and I am on some pain meds..
2006-07-26 18:54:49 · update #1
There are new meds for women that can help you. Talk to your Dr. You sound depressed and that would also explain the weight gain.
2006-07-26 18:31:38 · answer #1 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My spouse's dropped off after each and each youngster, for roughly 12-18 months, yet picked up progressively and he or she is now plenty extra lively (babies 9 and eight) than in the previous. She all started exercising (working) 3 hundred and sixty 5 days after our 2d, which will have helped. She's extra fit than in the previous (although no longer aggressive/athletic). The lull after each and each youngster is infamous and blamed for a great variety of marital issues (alongside with sleepless nights, no time on my own, etc.). in basic terms ascertain you do no longer forget approximately to do issues for yourselves, spend time, bypass out, break one yet another, presents, etc. conserving up with those romantic issues would be sure that as quickly as your physique is waiting, you nevertheless love one yet another and desire to get it on. you are able to ought to do your maximum suitable to muster some enthusiasm meanwhile.
2016-10-08 09:03:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it may be to do, you need to explain this to your OB-GYN. He/she will be able to help you with your concerns. They really do hear stuff like this all the time and will not laugh at you or think you are strange. You have legitimate problems being able to have sex and need a doctor's help.
2006-07-26 18:44:19 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you want him to go to your doctor with you the next time you go tell the doctor the problem he can help you both on this mattr you might need to have your doctor change your medication. and he your doctor might tell you and your husband to see a councler on this matter this will show him your husband that you are still in love with him but he as well as you have a problem and nither can help if steps arent taken in this matter good luck. to you both. my opion?
2006-07-26 18:40:42 · answer #4 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this.
He lays on his right side, you lay on your back, like a "T", put your left leg under the right side of his head, and put your right leg between his legs...
And go for it!!!!!!!!
2006-07-26 18:39:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋