I get paid everyday due to that I own my business. I own a moving company. Well she always wants to go out, get clothes, eat at restarants..well I think its a waste b/c I have a truck that need a 3200 dollar repair. Until that is fixed...I am unhappy with her spending. I don't think she respects my hard work. We fight almost every other day. She again, is honest and loyal, but I have had my little white lies and took another girl out, but no sex. The daughter isn't mine. Its her ex bfs. She don't work, but she helps a lot around the house and with my busiess. She does drink quite a bit...but not an alcoholic...she don't depend on beer. But she spends all day at home doing nothing...so at night time she likes to liven up a lil bit. She don't do drugs. She told me she was unhappy, so I took a lady out to me and my wifes spot. My wife hates that, and don't trust me worth anything. Do you think this marriage is worth keeping? We are complete opposites.
2006-07-26 18:23:41 · 11 answers · asked by Aaron J 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well I blame you for not making her work , she needs to get off her lazy *** ,and needs to put in as much as she takes out, also I really don't think that you two will be together for long if you keep on taking other women out on dates ,can't you wait until you are separated and divorced, man do you need help???
2006-07-26 18:32:12 · answer #1 · answered by E.M. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course the marriage is worth keeping. How does your wife feel? Is she willing to work to make things better? This situation really needs a counselor. You also need someone to set a budget for your wife and her spending. She needs to see how much money it takes to keep your business going. She may have no idea. There is no trust right now, but you could both work toward that goal. Talk to her in a calm manner and make a joint decision about where to go from here.
2006-07-26 18:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said that she helps you out with the housework and the business, surely that deserves some type of compensation. If you have a problem with her spending money, maybe the two of you should talk about what issues are really troubling you and come up with some type of budget so that the two of you can have some money for business and leisure. You need to stop taking the other woman out. Not all marriages are perfect. The two of you have to work on making the marriage work instead of concentrating on each others flaws. GOD BLESS YOU and your marriage.
2006-07-26 18:46:03 · answer #3 · answered by machelle6691 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you do have a dilemma I being the coupon queen and I will not spend on any thing I do not need. What advise can I give you it sounds as if your marriage is dysfunctional I think you need to seat down with her and show her how much you make a month, and then show her how much she spends every month that can be an eye opener for. Then decide to give her an allowance if she does not agree to these terms then tell her the marriage is going to fail and it will be all her fault.
2006-07-26 18:51:05 · answer #4 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marraige is always worth fighting for. You two need counciling, this has nothing to do with money. Money is just something that you two can fight about, because it sounds like your frustrations go deeper than that. Stop seeing other women. You and your wife need to get some help, preferrably from a Minister or a Preist. Don't make yourself a liar by backing our of vows that you took. It can get better. Good luck and God Bless.
2006-07-26 18:29:27 · answer #5 · answered by The Nag 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She keeps your house and cooks and does your laundry. You would have to pay others to do this for you. You would also have to hire someone to help with your business, which would cost you more money.
You haven't acted worthy of your wife's trust. You say that she does all this, and then you disrespect her saying that she "does nothing all day" Why should she respect your work, when you don't respect hers? You get to get off work, she doesn't get a day off.
Couselling is in order at the very least, since neither of you seems very happy.
2006-07-26 18:30:49 · answer #6 · answered by boogiewunker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being unfaithful isnt always the best answer, there was something that brought you two in love in the beginning. Look at your wife in another persons eyes, maybe you will find that she is actually doing more for you than you think. Talk to her about her spending habbits, maybe try a more comforting way to express that you are working hard and she is not taking your feelings to serious. Tell her before it leads to something it shouldn't lead to lets do something about this today.
2006-07-26 18:33:55 · answer #7 · answered by mma6889123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The taxpayers money strictly is going in the route of the queens authentic responsibilities and distinctive the castles and palaces are both inherited or owned with suggestions from the state. also the royals haven't any further something to do with the folk who cant arise with the money for his or her mortgages, it no longer there situation. The royals do have their own charities even if. yet in my opinion the royal tax should not be paid except theres an adventure on or something.
2016-11-26 02:10:01 · answer #8 · answered by macpherson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmmm tuff .. u should of figured that out before u took a vow to her....i think u just want out and ur finding every flaw wrong about her instead of trying to work on ur marriage u just want excuses to leave so u wont feel so damn guilty..
2006-07-26 19:07:13 · answer #9 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have you been married? seems like shes a good digger, tell her to get a job, and see how it feels to make her own money and spend it.
2006-07-26 18:30:52 · answer #10 · answered by brian w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋