2006-07-26 18:21:46 · 18 answers · asked by Tellie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
can you do , feels awful!
2006-07-26 18:22:51 · update #1
Find someone that doesn't have PS2 or XBOX.
Sorry. :(
2006-07-26 18:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babygirl. Men can be horrible creatures sometimes. I'm sorry this guy got what he wanted from you and is now mistreating you. Unfortunatly there's nothing you can do to make him stop or get him to change is mind about his behaivior.
What you can do for yourself is make better decisions on who you let into your sphere ( your world ).
You are beautiful, talented, intelligent, worthy, deserving, carring, lovable, funny wonderful girl. You deserve and are worthy to have that kind of guy in your life. Always remember all of your wonderful attributes and qualities and demand the same of the people you interact with. Especially guys that you want to be with.
What this guy is doing to you is what men having been doing since before you were born. Why do you always hear older girls and women telling younger girls to wait before they mess around with anybody? Trust me it's not because they wanna hear themselvs yap about it all day. It's because it's probably happend to them as well and they want to keep you from that same pain and aggrivation.
I made my boyfriend wait 6 months before he got anywhere. We've been together for 2 yrs. Do you see where i'm going with this love?
As for that guy.....He's a prick and he's not worthy of you. The only reason he did that is because he's a looser and he does'nt respect you. Loose his phone # and don't ever call him again. Don't see him anymore because he's only going to continue his behaivior because he feels that you'll allow him to do it again.
I'm sorry love but you'll have to chock this one up to a learning experiance. You're not the first and you can bet money you won't be the last. If what you really want is to love someone, start with yourself. You can't truely love someone else if you don't love yourself first. Make better choices next time and always keep your self safe from harm.
I wish you the best of luck babygirl.
2006-07-27 01:36:32 · answer #2 · answered by ilah23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men don't always know how to act. They have a hard time with intimacy and want to be in there own minds most of the time. I had someone like that and I unplugged the game system. Now I won't have a game system. You need to tell him that it sucks when he does that and if he keeps doing it either throw him out or the game system out. Game system are mindless tools that eat up your intelligence and make you fat, lazy and unmotivated.
2006-07-27 01:29:53 · answer #3 · answered by elizabeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but they must be done with you.
Don't humiliate yourself by trying to figure out why, just move on.
P.s. Don't throw your body around like it's a beachball for anyone to catch! If you don't know someone for more than a month, don't sleep with them. They just use you no matter what they say to you.
Your body is precious, don't give it away so freely, then maybe you won't be hurt so much.
2006-07-27 01:26:23 · answer #4 · answered by ktterdfurguson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP IT!!
Guys your age want one thing and one thing only...SEX. They do not care about what you think, they do not care about how you feel, they do not love you, they want in your pants and once they've nailed you they'll run off and tell all their friends what a little tramp you are.
You are better than that, keep your clothes on and stop being "intimate" with stupid boys. Boys don't get any smarter about women/sex/intimacy until they are about 30, you don't need to be risking your entire future on them now.
2006-07-27 01:25:50 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they want to get intimate with you I would turn on the Tv and start watching the simpsons!!! Or call a friend and chat!!
2006-07-27 01:26:12 · answer #6 · answered by mamabear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know one likes to be ignored specially after being intimate.there seems to be more than one solution.You could try ignoring them first.Or face it some guys just want that and then there gone.And if that's all they wanted you should be thank full don't feel bad.just try to hold out get to know the person.most guys think if you did it with them that you may be easy.sorry to be so blunt.Just take your time.
2006-07-27 01:40:32 · answer #7 · answered by Aisha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You started earlier i think. You should have wait untill the passion gets transformed in to Love kindaof.
2006-07-27 01:27:37 · answer #8 · answered by Bobby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say they werent interested in being intimate with ya. Time to find another "someone"?
2006-07-27 01:24:36 · answer #9 · answered by Danielle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time their intimate with you go turn around and just do you hair
2006-07-27 01:23:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what we call "using" in the code book. Keep doing this and you will end up pregnant and poor and wishing you'd waited until someone real came along/////
2006-07-27 01:26:13 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋