Ladies are mostly liers, less or more. Some are effluently lier throughout their lives. The result is that the husband gets illusioned, confused and feels being cheated by his wife on every fronts. The husband hates liers and hates to be cheated by anyone! What to do?
2006-07-26 18:12:17 · 19 answers · asked by Bulu 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
When having serious conversations with your wife on topics that she usually lies about, here's what you do:
1-As she begins to lie, rub your chin, look down for a second and appear to be deep in thought, do this until she finishes speaking.
2-Look up and give her direct eye contact and say "Are you lying to me?" And of course she will say no.
3-Then, you say "you sure about that?" Keep the eye contact strong!
4-If she says "yes!" and gives you direct eye contact, then she may be telling the truth, you will have to investigate on your own.
5-But, if she starts to stammer on her words, looks down and drops eye contact with you, then she may be lying.
6-Start to disrupt your family system by changing your routine. Make everyday unpredictable. If your wife is a stay at home mom, start by arriving home an hour early one day. Then perhaps on a day like Friday, call out sick (Just make sure you feign symptoms the day before). Look for signs that she may appear upset or annoyed that you disrupted her routine by staying home that day.
7-Look for defensive behavior. Is she crossing her arms, rolling her eyes, avoiding direct eye contact, crossing her legs? Is her body positioned away from yours when seated.
8-Does she ask you to repeat questions? This gives her time to put her lie together and get her story straight. Therefore you say, "you heard me." Now, she can't buy time to tell a fantastic lie.
Hope this helps.
2006-07-26 18:34:49 · answer #1 · answered by adjoadjo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All right, I think you are a little off by saying that all females are liars. “I hate lying men” am a very honest person and when I start a relationship with someone I don’t sugar coat my feelings about liars I tell them once I have been lied to that’s it am out and that’s that. I know that is harsh but how can you trust someone when they cannot be truthful!
2006-07-26 18:24:51 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't marry her until you have known her, and her friends for at least four years.. Especially her friends. and her family too..she will fake people out for a while, but her true person comes out in adversity..
Hopefully you can find a girl that prays with you... I don't know of many Christian ladies that can pretend to The Creator. Might just be the final test
2006-07-26 18:22:12 · answer #3 · answered by tent trailer jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you do not need to get married if you feel this way about women. I do not lie. I have been married twice to liars. I have found that many of the men I meet are liars. I will not marry again. First man said he loved only me. Yeah, well, his penis said otherwise. Second man said he'd accept me for who I was and then beat me because I wouldn't change for him. No, no...I think it is that you just have a thing for women who lie to you. It's your problem not the woman's. I have many girlfriends and none of them are liars. But most of my male friends are most definitely liars. I listen to their lies and deceit and shake my head at them. They ask why I am shaking my head and I tell them because you lie so much you don't even know you are lying. That is so sad.
2006-07-26 18:18:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest strongly that you not get married, if you have a choice (meaning if you aren't someone who's marriage is arranged) because you obviously have a very low opinion of women. I wonder what you think of your own mother? If you think highly of her, then doubly don't get married, because you would make the life of the poor girl you married extremely miserable as she could never compare to your "sainted" mother.
2006-07-26 18:30:55 · answer #5 · answered by gahrahstah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer for you, because of your opinion of women, may be to not marry at all, or marry a woman who is already accustomed to dealing with insecure men. For a decent man who is looking for marriage: ask her family, friends, friends of family, etc. They can provide insight.
2006-07-26 19:29:56 · answer #6 · answered by ajkep 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AHAHAHAHA you make me laugh. As if men are so innocent. You don't think women think the same thing? She is probably thinking the same thing as you. Regardless on what sex you are if you are suspicious about your spouse/gf - bf then there is no reason to stay in the relationship. You have to have trust. if you don't have trust then there is no relationship. It also sounds to me like your a little insecure.
2006-07-26 18:25:18 · answer #7 · answered by mystique_dragon4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the same goes for men there are some that cheat and lie also ,if you feel you cant trust her you should hold the wedding off till you do . we all take that chance and confide in spouses hopefully everything will work out .there are faithful men and women in this world believe it or not .good luck in your decision.
2006-07-26 18:20:36 · answer #8 · answered by BIGL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based on all the questions you've asked... I would like to be the first to tell you DO NOT GET MARRIED. EVER
you have some trust issues you need to get worked out first.
maybe a few other "issues" too...
2006-07-26 18:16:38 · answer #9 · answered by cynthetiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, besides the undeniable fact that it is going to reason a tear on your rectal wall. i understand, because a huge, propose doggie linked to me and then raped my azz at the same time with his bone. Serves me correct for searching for romance contained in the incorrect pounds. i will stick with the mutt that I easily have to any extent further.
2016-10-15 06:19:35 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋