Ok, I'm really having trouble with this situation. It could be due to my own lack of extensive experience with men(I am 23, dated my x for 4years, then met my current bf we're going on 3 years) My ex was a very nice guy, I was really in love with him in the beginning but slowly got bored, dumped him & met my current bf. I,up until recently, was CRAZY about this guy. Then its like I slowly get bored with him & his little annoying habits become so irratating I go nuts!! We have good chemistry, I love his family, we have made changes for each other,etc. But I feel that theres an important component missing, we dont have very indepth, intelligent conversations. Im not saying hes dumb at all but hes just not that introspective. I'm getting antsy again. I really need advice, are they just not "the one" or is it me? Am I looking for an excuse to run? As much as I LOVE the idea of being married 4ever, I also find the idea TERRIFYING! Please give me your opinions, just no nasty comments please!
2006-07-26 17:45:21 · 7 answers · asked by Ashley 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
If you are feeling something is missing, then for you, something is missing. This isn't the one for you.
You are still young, and over the past 7 years you have been growing and changing and maturing, so it is not at all uncommon that you would "outgrow" the relationships. That is why so many young marriages fail.
Keep looking, and don't settle. Once you find a good match for your own character and personality, you will feel invigorated by the relationship, and the little quirks and such wont be such a big deal to either of you.
Good Luck!!
P.S. I "settled" three times, married two of them .... totally unexpectedly, during my last single episode, I met a man who is so right for me, and me for him .... we have these wonderful deep conversations, we care so deeply, we laugh off the little annoying things, and just love being together. I wish I had known better way back then.
2006-07-26 17:53:54 · answer #1 · answered by Pichi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is not any longer something in the Bible that teaches there is merely "one it really is planned for YOU" as a mate. it is all about compatibility and basic objectives. there are such countless issues available in the destiny that you could't foresee, and some human beings can't stay on an identical route, and lose their minds and their concentration, on God and one yet another. each and every in certain situations you do not recognize what "the love of your existence" ought to be like until eventually you've lived a million/2 your existence. you may no longer recognize what you choose until eventually you adventure what you do not choose. Asking God is your appropriate conceivable risk for optimistic. yet at the same time as youthful little ones arise previously a preacher and say "for better or for worse", they have easily NO concept what they say. you need to besides be reciting the words to 'Mary Had a touch Lamb'.
2016-11-26 02:06:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I read your details correctly, it's you and you're trying to find an excuse to run, when you don't have to run. If you find the idea of getting married terrifying, you've obviously never married, before. Do it anyway!.
2006-07-26 17:50:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You expect WAY too much out of realtionships. Hes a human, and so are you, hes not going to be entertaining 24/7. You seriously need to lower your standards.
Good luck!
2006-07-26 17:48:01 · answer #4 · answered by Aimee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get bored of them because of the rutine.....i recommend that you go out but to different places or just do something different each day.
2006-07-26 17:50:22 · answer #5 · answered by lucely171 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably he is not the one. move on. the one you want is the one you're begging to pop the magic question.
2006-07-26 17:51:12 · answer #6 · answered by san_pellegrino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run FOR fun!!!!!!
2006-07-26 17:48:39 · answer #7 · answered by redtinydawg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋