see i believe that u can love someone as a friend and family. but not as husband or smthing. i dont believe that there is a love out there that dosnt fade away and that makes u be with smone FOREVER. but i want ur opinions because i could be wrong. and my friends think im wrong so i want to know.
2006-07-26 17:27:56 · 13 answers · asked by sara ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I guess your friends are wrng...You have a very pratical and the right approch so stick to it ..don't give a damm abt what they say ..you will always be happy if you stick ths approch
2006-07-26 18:00:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love has always been. We are sometimes blinded to knowing this truth. I thought it was a fairy tale that other people experienced. I made a poor choice because I thought I would never have it. But now I know it is not a fairy tale. That was the lie. And now I believe. My husband is a wonderful man and we really do love each other. Read 1 Corinthians 13 and pray for understanding.
2006-07-27 01:04:32 · answer #2 · answered by I_sup_w_him 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with cuddlebug815. I thought I had loved my past boyfriends and my ex husband, and thought I knew what love was, until my ex decided to abuse me for 20 years, lie and cheat, etc. That is NOT love. He had no commitment even tho I did. It takes two to make a relationship work and love to stay in a relationship. He wasn't willing and wasn't about to change. I got tired of the crap and left.
After I left my ex, I found my fiance. Wow!!!! What a total difference! He is the total opposite of my ex. My fiance loves, respects, anc cherishes me. He has total commitment, we communicate about everything, has a sense of humor and makes me laugh every day, and we tell each other constantly during the day 'I love you.' He hugs and kisses me and says he loves me before he goes to work; anytime we talk on the phone during the day we say it; when he gets home we say it over and over; we say it before falling asleep in each others arms at night.
I was totally scared to feel love again. I had soooooooo many feelings and was scared to death to let them out. But, once I listened to my heart and let my feelings be known to him (and everyone around me could see them too), I have never been happier!!
Love DOES exist bestwen two people for marriage or a gf/bg relationship. You just have to be patient, and when you find it, you will know it. But, as with anything in life, love and relationships take lots of work and communication. If you don't have those, along with respect, then it won't work. People can fall out of love for many reasons (my ex abused me and we grew apart--I grew up and he didn't), which can mean divorce. But, that doesn't mean that the couple didn't love each other at some time. They have just lost that love. When you fi8nd that one true love, you will love them forever. It is a different feeling than a love with someone else. You just click in every way and you just know that you will be together forever.
2006-07-27 01:30:39 · answer #3 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is real and i pity the person that's never experienced it at least once. if you ever marry (?), that kind of love is very special and fragile. it's doesn't come and stay as easily as a love for your child for example. you have to work really hard to maintain the love that brought you two together to begin with. after going through frightening, intense, and tearful times, you will see that having gone through them with this love of yours makes it all worth while. you can stand up and say this marriage and our love still stands tall, because it was a love fighting for.
it'll come to you someday when you aren't expecting it, and that's the best time because you won't have to sit and think about it, it will just take over your heart.
be open to it and you'll feel one of the most intense feelings a human being can feel!! God bless and good luck
2006-07-27 01:16:38 · answer #4 · answered by irie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love even if it fades or breaks was and always will be love . Even if you dont feel the same way anymore .
I've said it before and I will say it again
Our (human) love has limits but Gods love is boundless .
And for the record I too feel as if I love my husband more than any other I have ever loved before .You both have to be willing to commit your everything .
2006-07-27 00:48:03 · answer #5 · answered by insertstrawhere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a positive thing and most definitely is real. if you love someone its great, but that other has to love you back in order for you to have the forever kind of love, but... love and hate and lust run together and its up to the receiver to decipher the difference, for me it was like getting eleticfield every-time we time we were in the same building, weather i knew he was there or not, the feeling and love knew it, but love can be destroyed by disloyalty and carelessness.
2006-07-27 00:50:07 · answer #6 · answered by mistysr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most definitely. and its amazingly terrifying. i thought i had loved before, but when i fell in love with my husband, there was so much inside me that it literally scared the hell out of me. i was a wreck. but then i finally decided to open myself up to let my feelings out, and its been terrific! he's the first and last thing on my mind every day. we tell each other "i love you" 100 times aday. theres nothing i wouldnt do for him, nor him for me.
2006-07-27 00:41:03 · answer #7 · answered by tonysdoll815 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes love is real it just takes a lot of thought and commetment. sometimes people just surch in all the wrong places. you first have to seek out someone you wants and can love.
2006-07-27 00:34:56 · answer #8 · answered by marla h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh, sure it exists!!
well , but few people can understand it. I believe in true love that never fades.
2006-07-27 02:05:16 · answer #9 · answered by sss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. Love only seems to exist in movies.
2006-07-27 00:32:37 · answer #10 · answered by Just a guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋